Hey Bud,
Welcome to Thundersplace. I totally got what the message was that you wrote in your original post. Humor to ease the weird sense of “Why is everybody so much more well endowed than me?” complex that can occur when viewing other members stats or seeing their pictures. Happened with me as well. Then, you get this burning desire to be one of those men. You hear their comments that it takes time, patience, consistent work, and a right frame of mind. Everyone here seems to want to help the next guy. I like this about the site. Using advice from the site and from what other guys relate, I have gained in both length and girth. Do I want more? You betcha! And even though my measurements with ruler and tape indicate that I am above average, there’s still that part in my brain that haunts me in thinking “everyone is so big here.” I’m going to have to agree with a previous post that reminds us all that the really successful men on here have been at it a while. Some were fortunate to have started with really good genes! Others have worked very hard (not that the already bigger guys haven’t!) to achieve their dreams. I wish you great success. Just remember that part about time, patience, dedication, and a healthy mindset. My 2 cents.