An Interesting Situation

I feel like I have two options with this post. 1. I could give my whole life story and background or 2. I could just summarize it and talk about the problem I need help with.

When I was young and growing up in Mexico I was taken by a group of men and tortured. Part of the torture was cutting off a large portion of my penis. I do not remember a lot of this as I was about 6-8 and it was very traumatic for me. I can still get erections but when I am erect, my penis is about 1” long and when I am not erect, I look like a woman.

What is there to do as it is impossible to grab while not erect? I would imagine suction device be good for me but I would like to grow longer. I would be happy with a 3” erection so I may penetrate my wife as we wish to have children although more length would be nice too experience large penis.

I apologize for English as I am still learning and have much to work on. If you could give a plan of action of what you would do with the expertise I would appreciate it a lot!

Thanks :)

I would imagine that PE with an erection may be your only option since you cannot grab your penis without one but then again, I am fairly new myself. Someone with more experience will chime in with some options.

All i could think about is maybe stretching and light pumping.
But wait for the veterans to help you they know better than me.

I am deeply sorry for what happened to you, when I finished reading it I saw myself in tears.

First go see an urologist to see if at least you have all the compounds of your penis like glans, all functional urethra, veins etc. Talk to your urologist that you plan to do some exercises to your penis, nothing too harsh, just for health. After he sees it and feel that you can do it then do it.

I don’t think jelqs will do a thing. Start with stretches, again, go easy and slow, always always alwayysss warm up so you don’t have any problems regarding pain or damage.

Best of luck.

Abraço.

I appreciate your comment! I have no glans but all my other parts are working. I remember going through a few surgeries as a child to fix some of the damage so everything is functional, just very short. Haha

I have actually been able to live a fairly normal life and am able to still have confidence in myself. The intercourse with my wife has been the only obstacle so far and would love to be able to have normal sex. One benefit is I have gotten very good at making her cum with other means which I feel has actually made me a better lover as she said most men she was with just went straight for penetration which she no like.

After reading I thought stretching would be the best idea but I can only grab my penis when it is erect. I read that this is not good to pull on when erect? Everything is there that should be there in the first inch of the penis and it really doesn’t look that strange. Kinda just looks like I am uncut so I am not too worried that it will look strange when it gets longer.

Also, I think I may only be able to pull straight out. Is pulling straight out with an erection ok?

Do you know of a pumping device that may work? I was thinking about using a vac hanger to pump with until it is long enough to actually hang with the hanger.

I agree. Seems to be only option I am just wondering if pulling straight out will be enough as I hear you should stretch in all directions which I cannot do yet.

Without the glans, is your penis even sensitive enough for you to enjoy sex with it? Because if it’s not, you don’t need to do all this work to solve your problems. It’s a lot of work even for those of us who can get ahold of our penises!

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On the other hand, if PE will improve your sexlife, go for it! Maybe you can get a grip on it while you have an erection and let the erection die down so you can stretch? Or maybe you could attach a vacuum hanger while it’s erect and then let the erection die down before you attach any weight? (Someone with hanging experience will have to chime in here.)

No glans might be a problem if you are going for girth, but for length I don’t know.

Never stretch your penis with any kind of erection, you should try to pull it on a flaccid state. If you do it with an erection you might destroy what have left of your tunica, CC and CS. At the beginning it will be difficult, but keep it on.

That is a crazy story you have there. Just want to wish you the best of luck with everything! If you would like, would you mind telling your life story? I would gladly read it.

Yes, I second that. At first, I thought you were just making a joke about being circumcised. What is this torture? You imply that it is a cultural thing?

Did you get the answer you were looking for? Normally posts don’t stick with me for long but I have been thinking about this for a while now, since I read this post. Doing research on google seems to return only surgical options which, honestly, in your situation does not seem so bad although my first-hand knowledge of surgery is limited but the articles I am finding from simply searching “penis restoration after amputation” seem positive. I would look into that as an option and make sure you talk to your doctor about the risks and possible downsides as well but you may be able to get some surgery to lengthen your penis and then after it has been a while maybe come back and look at doing the manual routine very lightly after talking with your doctor.

The future is bright for you my friend and I wish you well! Be safe.