I said what I said not to cause any hardship but rather for you to think. I have seen relationships that I knew would never work and yet hose involved said it would, they’d work things out, he/she will change. Never happens.Years, sometime decades go by before they realize the inevitable and by that time too much life has been wasted.
You only have one life;everyday that goes by is one less day you’ll have and our days are limited. Life was meant to be enjoyed. Find what makes you happy, even if it’s a hard thing to do and go do it