Beginner with a Bathmate
Hi all, I’ve known about PE for some time now, but put it off for years. I recently had a gf make suggestions that my penis was rather small. Full disclosure I am starting at about 5.5 in. BPEL. No idea about girth as of yet, but if I had to guess, probably around 4.5 or so.
I have a bathmate that I’ve bought a few months ago and used maybe 4-5 times max, and never consistently.
The first couple times I used them for maybe 15-20 mins flaccid, and it did nothing for me. It looked thicker for about 2 minutes before it “deflated”.
The next couple times I used them erect for anywhere from 30-45 mins to maybe even an hour. This made me pretty thick, with not much increase in length. The thickness stayed for a few hours, but eventually went away, and because I am uncut, my foreskin ballooned and looked cartoonishly like a rolled condom.
I’m here because I want to ask for some advice. I know that many people do not suggest using a bathmate as a beginner, however I would like to include it in my beginner routine.
So here are my questions, and if you must absolutely make a case for why I shouldn’t use it, please do.
* Do I use it before or after the beginner routine?
* As a beginner, am I being really dumb by using it at 30 minute - 1 hr at a time? (I’m aware that most people do it maybe 15 mins max).
* Should I use it flaccid or erect? Or is it okay to do both?
Thanks everyone. I want to really stick with this routine this time, I would absolutely like to fill my girl completely.