complete novice

Hello all

I just have some complete novice questions:

does it really work?

*** can i hurt myself - go impotent? ***

and how or what is the safest way to get started?

thanks very much

>does it really work?
The simple answer is yes. The more complex answer is yes in the majority of cases, if the right set of exercises are used and if you are willing to commit to doing the exercises over an extended period, probably 1-2 years.

>*** can i hurt myself - go impotent? ***

Yes you can hurt yourself. Most injuries are minor and heal quickly but if you read first and don’t jump ahead of yourself (especially in the first 2-3 months) you minimise the risk of injury.

Impotentance is a separate issue, doing this will focus you on your penis at least to some extent and when you focus there is always the chance of creating a mental block. Physically you would have to go out of the bounds of safety for these exercises to risk it, as long as you are careful you will improve the health of your penis not harm it.

Probably the best thing to do is to read extensively. Check out the tutorial forum, read this forum. A good starting place is luvdadus’ newbie routine.

Take a few minutes before you start any PE to look at and feel your penis so that you know exactly what state it is in before you start, maybe take some pictures too and definately get some initial measurements. A lot of people miss this step but its a very important one.

Hope that helps and Welcome to Thunder’s Place.

Also when you get a chance read the Forum Guidelines, here we try to post in a style that is easy to read.

Thank you very much, memento.

I guess I will just have to read.

It just seems too good to be true.

But is there any danger of permanent damage?

And is there a book - like Gary Griffin or something on jelq?

And I dont know what kegels is.

I guess im just kinda nervous about it.

Also I think the so-called moral implications are okay - I mean
bodybuilders work out - so why not this.

Well sorry if I sound stupid.

But thanks very much.

Lance

lancelot,

All answers of your questions can be found in old posts!

Take a look at PE FAQ & GLOSSARY at first, and you will understand what are jelq and kegel. There are also some video instructions available!

As far as permanent damages, just ask some guys who have PEed for several years, and look at the posts from all other members, and you will get the point!

lancelot,

rainsea put some good links there. Definately a good starting place.

>It just seems too good to be true
Try it for a couple of months. This place wouldn’t have lasted so long if it weren’t true.

>But is there any danger of permanent damage?
Not if you take care. Like everything if you are stupid you can hurt yourself. Unlike say driving a car though you are pretty much 100% responsible for any danger.

>And I dont know what kegels is.
Contractions of the PC muscle (the one that you stop flow with when urinating).

>Also I think the so-called moral implications are okay - I mean bodybuilders work out - so why not this.<
You know thats one of the biggest things for me. All this time concentrating on the penis I’m not sure its really a spiritually enhancing thing.

>I guess im just kinda nervous about it.
Reading, reading and more reading will help. Try to do a little research before you start rather than getting gung-ho and everything will be fine.

While I don’t know what spiritual means to you, but it’s Christianity for me. I used to lead a Bible study and do special lessons for the college group at church, but I don’t think this should be a spiritual stumbling block. Think of it as providing a better marriage, physically for your wife, whether it’s a future or current wife.

But really, even though I’m brand new, the mental game seems to be a big part of this, so if you really want results, you can’t have a spiritual millstone hanging around your neck.

Not a millstone for me and I’m not a christian. I also have a problem with having sex with strangers in public conveniences but I still enjoy it.

I think it depends what you are like. I’m 3 second memory man so I’ll have a problem with something and it will be fuzzy pretty quick and gone soon after. If you’re the type of guy that worries then I guess its a problem.

Well thanks guys.

I will just do the research.

Thanks very much and all

Im just afraid of Aesiop’s fable that teaches:

“Those who ask for a lot may lose the little they already have.”

Anyway…