Couldn't Get Hard For Sex After Pumping

Good day. I’m new to the penis pumping game. I decided I’ll hit the pump this morning & then go surprise the Mrs, but when I woke her up to do the deed I couldn’t stay erect { that’s never ever an issue for me}.. I tried everything to get hard, but the little guy wouldn’t budge, he was happy to flaccid. Is this normal with newbies or does it happen to everyone?

I have the same experience. I need to rest a couple of hours after pumping.

How long time did you pump, what hg and did you use heat?

Usual situation with too much pressure and too much time under the pressure.
Tune your routine down substantially and do not workout everyday.

After you have found somekind of balance then you might start to carefully think of doing more often or more intense.

I have a manual pump. No guage. So I pump slowly to the point where I feel a little discomfort. If it’s to much I just release a little air. I only pumped 2x4min reps. Just wanted to surprise her with some puffiness. Well it turns out she was Surprised for all the wrong reasons.

I have a manual pump. No guage. So I pump slowly to the point where I feel a little discomfort. If it’s to much I just release a little air. I only pumped 2x4min reps. Just wanted to surprise her with some puffiness. Well it turns out she was Surprised for all the wrong reasons.

I had the same results and other signs of over pumping with my old setup which did not have a gauge. Since my new pump with a gauge Its great. I pumped 2x15 at 5hg right before sex the other night, and her eyes bulged. It was the largest I’ve ever been. If I exceed 7hg, my penis is too tired and acts like a fat limp sausage. I usually pump hours before sex as part of my normal routine, but most of the girth is gone by the time we have sex.

Looks like I’ll have to do the same. I’m only 1 week in so I’m very new to this. All I know is that it’s made my flacid pecker look bigger, but I can’t do flacid when I need to do the deed. 1st time in 10years I couldn’t get it up for her. Tried everything. I hit a bit of a panic thinking I’ve done something to my member. Got to work & a few hours later went to the toilet with some porn & it grew like it should of 👍 tucked it away & felt relieved

Stop pumping without a gauge! Your body is sending you a clear signal your not doing things right!!. You also have to understand pumping and girth work aren’t for everyone. Our bodies react differently to different forms of PE. I know a lot of guys that gained using a traction device but I never did. Some of those same guys never gained from girth work but I did.

Thank you for the advice. I knew I rushed things. That’s why I’m here. To learn. The experience this morning gave me a fright. This site has opened my eyes

Good news is when I got back home I had a shower & then told her let me make up for Mr Floppy in the morning.. Well it was like Thors hammer. Lesson learnt. Don’t pump before sexy time

You can learn how to pump before sex. Just don’t go overboard and don’t psyche yourself out with negative thoughts. Be proud of that post pump whopper! :)

Noted.. I got carried away this week. Pumping to hard to try maximize gains. Meanwhile I was making my pecker look for shelter

I don’t know why anyone who loves their penis and want to enjoy sex with that penis would use a pump without a gauge. Seems dangerous. But I have to wait a day or 2 after pumping to get firm erections.

PumpNoob if you can swing it get a pump with a gauge. This way you can find your sweet spot in terms of pressure. Everything having to do with PE and PE safety is time and pressure/force. Unfortunately without a gauge your taking a shot in the dark.

And thats exactly how NOT to pump. If you pump until you have little bit of discomfort, too late. Too much pressure. If you gauge the pressure you an accurately apply what has been proven to be safe and effective. Going by “feel” is the wrong gauge.