Hello LFaverage!
I feel I have so much to say to you and I really hope you will read this and take it in to your mind. What I will write is from my point of view, things that have worked for me. I don’t know how you are as a person so I just make some guesses from your post.
To summarize my post, you can RIGHT NOW stop being depressed and CHANGE your life and begin to LOVE it!
Watch this video now and after you have read my post:
I understand that you are a depressed about your size, it’s natural, I have been there to. When I found PE as a 20 year old in 2007 I was 4,8 NBPEL and about 5,5 BPEL in length. I was insecure then and thought I could never satisfy a girl. For me my insecurities about girls was the core of my problems and depressed me very much. But in 2009 I found out about "game" and self-development. I don’t know if you know about that but for me it changed my life over ONE night, I have not been the same person since then. I understod that I could totally change myself to be more attractive, social and much more. You MUST check this things up, I can give you tips if you want. The mind is so TOTALLY amayzing, you can control it very much for example I guess you have many negative thoughts now, but think about this: you can stop thinking those thoughts and just think positive thoughts. This is a huge subject and feel free to ask me anything, I have gone from an insecure boy that never got laid to the total opposite and I fucking LOVE my life!
Of course you can go and see a therapist, I have no own experience in that. I guess I would have got that advice if I told anyone about how I feeled 4 years ago. But the core of my deppression was only the size of my penis and my inability to meet girls and when I sorted those things out I had no problems in the world anymore.
Let’s get down to your penis size. To begin with, you see the world how you feel, and your mind is now looking for evidence that you are so so so small, for exemple you said you watched peoples signatures here on thunder and felt everybody was so big, and you asked your friend and he was 7" and so on. This is of course not a real picture of the world, let’s take some look at REAL facts.
Look in this thread: Penis Size: The True Average
There you see that the true average is not that big as you might think or what media says or what you hear people talk about. Guys will always exaggerate their size and especially at the internet, don’t belive everything. But I will not lie to you, your length is under average, but be happy for your girth thats good especially because it’s harder to gain girth so it’s better to start with good girth and short length instead of the opposite!
But now you have found PE, and I can promise you, THIS SHIT WORKS! You will never be shorter, the only thing that can happen is that YOUR PENIS WILL GROW! Think about that for a second, you are about to get a bigger penis..! There is a guy that posted here long ago named Yguy, hes starting size was 4,5 BPEL x 3,5. That is small. He got up to 8 BPEL x 5,5: Edited version of my history.
Of course everybody can’t be that lucky in PE but that should motivate you.
Everybody have different luck in the gains department but in my opinion, if you are serious with your workout and follow instructions gaining 0,5-1 inch is something the majority can achieve. For somebody it take 3 months and for somebody it take 3 years. But with persistance and motivation it will work. So think about it, 3 months from now you might have a 5,5BPEL penis, or 5,2 or 6,1. THINK ABOUT THAT DUDE, let it motivate you be positive! Set up small goals that you can look forward to, having goals is VERY motivational for people. I promise you, when you see your first gains you will be extremely motivated and begin to love this thing called PE. And I also believe that gaining over 1 inch or more is something most people can achieve, but how long time it takes varies very much. I myself are in this for at least 5-10 years I guess.
With this things said, the size of your penis is not everything in this world (even if I from my own experience understand how much this affects your life) and you should really start to work on EVERY aspects of your life. Build a NEW life, be happy! I stopped smoking 2013 and I am really proud of myself, you should to the same thing when you read this. Take your pack of cigarettes and break it and never smoke again. Begin to work out in a gym and build some muscles, the gains comes fastest in the begining, just as in PE. Of course everybody is different and you might not be the kind of guy that wants to be muscular but I know many, and myself, feel very good thanks to this.
You should also as I stated above begin to look up "self-development" (I don’t know how you are as a person so I’m just guessing efter I read that you were depressed) Start to be more outgoing and social, meet new people, talk a lot, smile, talk to girls, have no fear, begin your new life today!
I saw that you were stretching 20min in your routine and that you began to have bad EQ, you might overtrain your unit. I am not the most experienced in PE but I say take it slow in the beginning, it’s easy to overtrain and do to much PE if you start small and really really want to gain. But if you do to much it will probably not be benificial, start really slow and watch your PI:s so they are good, in the beginning you can probably gain a lot from a very light routine. I warmly suggest you to follow the Newbie routine here on thunder Newbie Penis Enlargement Routine
Follow the instructions religiously and increase the intensity just as stated. Follow the newbie routine at least 2-3months and don’t change routine or add some tools until you have not gained fore some month.
I will summarize my thoughts for you in some steps that I think you should follow:
1
The core of your deppression is your penis size so let’s start with that.
Start a progress log here. Do the newbie routine and increase intensity slowly. Measure every 2-4 weeks. read a lot here on thunder and get good to do your stretching and jelqing. PROMISE yourself to be consistant with PE for a year from today.
2
Think positive, when you get a negative thougt, just try to shift your focus and think something positive instead. Everytime you think negative about your size understand that your penis only can change in one direction, it will be bigger! Think about how fantastic that you found this place while you’re still young and how much you can change! Everyday you wake up is a brand new day where you can enlarge your penis.
3
Start to excersice your body, go to a gym and build some muscles or if you like cardio more, do that. The important thing is to train your body and feel even more good and proud of yourself.
4
Be more outgoing and social. Talk more to people, ask more questions, be interested, smile more, give value and so on. Go out to parties, bars and nightclubs, talk to girls, evolve yourself!
5
Understand that what makes people happy or succesful in life is just their state of mind. I promise you there is guys with huge penises that are really depressed. Understand that you can have any life you choose, you can be anything you want in this world, it’s true! If I can change my life why shouldn’t you be able? I am no better then you, we are all equal. It’s just up to you to decide.
6
Understand that if you start doing these things life will reward you, you will automatical be more positive and start to like yourself more and more. The more you invest in yourself the better self-esteem you will get. Of course this is a process that will take different time for different persons but it can only be better and better for every day.
I hope some of this can help you, feel free to PM me if you want.
Cheers!
