Disappointment?

I recently experienced some major gains, which is what I have been working for, but for some reason I actually feel disappointed! I thought that was so weird. For the first time I actually was hoping the gains are not permanent. I guess its because I found that being larger doesn’t seem all that its cracked up to be. I somehow imagined something else, I don’t remember what, but I visualized that it would be somehow much more satisfying than it is in reality.

I am still doing a routine, and the feeling of disappointment sometimes comes, but maybe not as strong. But I am thinking that as I adjust to the new part of me, the feeling will go away. Have any of you felt this? It makes me wounder why I wanted it in the first place.

Maybe a bigger dick isn’t something you really want. The big penis hype made you do PE maybe. If you don’t want it bigger then stop PE.

It’s too bad that your PE efforts haven’t produced the results you were hoping for. It seems that a lot of guys think that if/when they get a bigger dick they’ll be better lovers, get a better job, not have stinky feet, be smarter and just generally be better men. I don’t know if this is what’s going on with you, but maybe you need to re-visit what it was that made you want a bigger penis in the first place. Maybe your dissatisfaction has nothing to do with your cock.

Good luck!

Clgp7
Yes, that could be it. I don’t feel quite so disappointed today. But there is that lingering thought. I am not sure what there is to revist, I didn’t take any notes about the thought about wanting more. Its been over 2 years ago, so its difficult to remember. Its sensitive stuff, so its unlikely I wrote any of that down.

Keybord,
Yes, I certainly can stop at anytime.

Actually, when I grew a bigger dick , my wife moved back in, my dog came back to life and I even regrew some hair.

Life couldn’t be better.

:D

For each one of those issues, certainly the answer are NOT PE.

What kind of gains did you make?

Lmao! Funniest post I’ve read in a long time.

Can’t say I relate. Haven’t even had substantial gains but I still find myself getting excited to take a piss to look at my bigger unit. I agree with clgp7, what caused you to want to improve your unit? I imagine there had to be some compelling force to motivate you to put in all of the hours of effort.

Perhaps you are experiencing this because you had tied your dissatisfaction (assumed) with your penis size with other issues in your life and believed that increasing the size of your penis alone would mysteriously give you those other things you are still lacking. Many people assume a bigger penis will give them greater confidence in all parts of their life and while this may be true sometimes, it is often not the case.

Yes, I think I confused some other emotional issues around penis size. Being confident and outgoing is something most Americans prize. I sometimes are both, but not as often as I could be to really network well. This doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with that, as most jobs as in 99.99% don’t require it. In fact the only ones I can think of is being a porn star or a male prostitute, that would make a difference.

Well, I continued with my routine, and altered it a bit. I always seem to be trying new things, any two workouts seem to be different in some way. I actually now ‘welcome disappointment’. because It has given me a chance to sort out what is related to penis size and what is not. Most of it is NOT related to this feeling of disappointment. so with each new gain I hope to feel ‘disappointed’, as in it will give me a chance to process the emotional garbage and set it aside. In the end I am finding that I am not really disappointed any more. Maybe I just need to adjust.

But in someways I seems like I already have. My penis is larger, but I am not so amazed at it anymore, and await new gains. Thank you everyone for your input.

The biggest gains I got from PE have been in the confidence department.

And my ex stayed away.

It`s all good.

I believe you have described here a very positive manner in which to create positive growth from a feeling that was originally negative (disappointment), which is very healthy indeed. Goodwork :)

It’s normal to feel a bit low after any emotional upheaval. But I also feel that dissatisfaction with your penis size was merely a symptom to some bigger issue. Once you find out what it is that is truly making you unhappy and set your mind to fixing it, the success of your PE efforts will most likely sink in. Maybe by then you’ll have accomplished even more gains and you can enjoy them for what they are.

It’s like a person looking in the mirror after losing 100 with a year’s hard work at the gym, and still seeing themselves as fat. It may take some time to see the new you.

If any off this is the case, you may feel you don’t deserve the gains, so they don’t bring you any satisfaction, but they will.

Don’t give up.