Dry Jelqin is impossible for me

I am uncircumcised so I should be dry jelqing. I find it hard unlike wet jelqin to maintain a semi errect penis while peforming dry jelqs because it feels to hard & rough on my penis. Even when I tried a wet jelq doin a large number of jelqs before subsiding was hard.

Any advice?

This might seem obvious, but have you tried looking at some porn to keep erect during your sessions. Maybe, due to privacy issues that isn’t a possibility for you? Anyway, I find it helps tremendously.

It’s also a good idea to edge before starting a good jelqing sessions. Of course, porn is always good.

-Brother Jebus

This is good advice. I foolishly believed that just looking at pictures would suffice to stay hard; but it wasn’t. Switching to porn as well as cutting back drastically on the masturbation ensures that I no longer have any problems staying erect. I’m also uncircumcised.

I seem to have the opposite problem. My dick is too erect during dry jelqing and I have to stop and with for the erection to subside a little during my PE.

Am I mistaken in thinking that I should only be about 50% erect during jelqs?

Same here goin4-9! It’s frustrating actually.

I would reckon 50% erect is a good size. Maybe a bit less. I do it at maybe 40% but I squeeze tightly. Oh, the slinky approach (dry jelqing) is absolutely astounding. I just don’t have words for how it works. I can literally feel the blood pooling in my penis. I think this is going to be my girth training exercise. You should try it. (Check the videos to see how to do the slinky.)

I am not ready for the slinky yet. Someday though. I have to work on keeping from having an orgasm during the jelq part of my routine. for some reasong I get really aroused and have to stop and count the leaves on the bathroom wallpaper. Good thing wifey is not home or she would wonder why I am int he bathroom so long.

Jelqs don’t have to be done in a specific erect level. It depends on what you are trying to gain. Length is generally done at a lower erection level say <50%, while girth is done higher at about >70%. If the problem is keeping erection or losing it, blow a load before or refrain from blowing a load for the day.