Originally Posted by Fuel2000
I suffer from various “chronic” diseases too and take medications that affect my sex drive negatively but I never let those medicines and diseases take over my life never. You live once man and you can make changes no matter what if you believe in yourself. Create that inner power if you don’t feel it and apply it to your life you will change it. Being a sufferer of a disorder/disease should strengthen you and never weaken you or stop you. You’re 29, life is still ahead of you. You can always make changes to the better and make it happen. Trying hard will take you there and guess what it will feel better to you than it will feel to other people who have been there already or without working hard because you worked hard for it and reached something you will consider remarkable and valueable. You can have everything you want in your life it’s all on you to choose to (defy, workhard, defeat, acheive and be proud) or ( accept it the way it is and die the same). It’s all on you!
Thank you bro, I really appreciate the kind words. I appreciate other dudes words as well. I realized living all these years without experiencing friendships, girlfriends, sex, success, etc has made me very strong. I could have did a “Cobain” years ago but something told me, life can get better. Now, I am combating my health disorders trying to get healthy for the first time in my life, only focusing on this so I can live your words bro, and make those changes and better myself so I can have a future and a wife and even if I cannot have children, I can adopt and or marry someone who does. This is why I’m here in this forum. I want to be able to relate toward my peers. I will never type crap and pity because I hate it my way. I’m very realistic and human and sometimes tough love is needed rather than sensitive passive advice. It’s all on my bro, and I’m not complaining rather during my job to get healthy in all areas. When I type about my experiences it’s never complaining and feeling sorry for myself; I’m just trying to use my prior experiences to show others they are not alone.
PS, I’m so sorry you have to deal with chronic diseases. You also don’t give up and continue to experience life in so many profound areas. Don’t get sad over folks like me. We have our own roads to travel. Just get your health balance and do what makes you happy. Never abuse and embrace family and friends.