Erection question for all

I’m putting this question out there as I have had difficulty maintaining erections while jelqing.

I’ve read some posts about how easily some of you get an erection (it was just mentioned in passing) so I’d like to ask some specific questions, open for anyone and everyone to answer.

If you were to lie down and relax, flaccid,

1. Could you get an erection without ever touching your penis?
2. Could you maintain this erection indefinitely? If not, for how long?

I would have some trouble doing this, and would say that most of the time I could not do it.

I have a few possible reasons for this. Firstly I’m a bit hung up about my size, I never masturbate or look at my dick without worrying about my size. Secondly I think that the intensity at which I masturbate has desensitised my penis such that I have more difficulty getting aroused. So I’m just getting some perspective on this.

There are several methods of obtaining erections, such as watching porn, or having sexualk thoughts (don’t ask me what thoughts, please!) . There are various herbal ‘medicines’ - Aphrodisiacs - Such as ‘Horny Goat Weed’ which are supposed to help.

You might try the following. Gently massage the space between the shaft of your penis and the Glans with your fingers. At the same time try a very gentle Kegel almost to the point of nothing but as it were thinking about a kegel and just concentrating this movement at the base of your penis. but keep it going as long as possible

Sometime very gentle stimulation is more effective.