Finally Starting PE

Hi all,

Long time lurker, first time poster! I joined about two years ago; I’ve done only a little PE. Anything I gained, I quickly lost because I did not concrete. The longest I’ve ever had a routine going was perhaps one month at most. I’ve always lacked privacy because I shared a bedroom and bathroom with roommates. I do not want to entirely blame my lack of privacy on my lack of commitment to a routine, but it did not help. Anyway, now I share a bedroom and bathroom with my girlfriend and it’s fairly easy to find time when she is gone (although, more on this later).

Anyway, my starting stats are:
BPEL: 7.75”
NBPEL: 7.00”
EG: 5.125”

Routine:
5min: hot rice sock warm up
10min: basic jelqs with a couple horse 440’s when my hands get tired
10min: clamp (Cable Clamp)
Night: TLC tugger ventless

This will be performed in the evenings 4 days a week (Sun, Mon, Wed and Thurs). I am well conditioned to handle this because I have PE’ed enough here and there in the last two years. Also, I’ve tested this routine (minus the TLC tugger) for one week thus far.

The TLC tugger is mostly just to keep myself in an extended state after exercising similar to post-exercising wrapping. Also, I am circumcised and would like a bit more “play” in my foreskin, as I have no foreskin at all. I would like enough foreskin such that in the flaccid state, my foreskin would cover about half of my head (not more).

My goal is the classic 8x6 (8”NBPEL x 6”EG). The length at least, seems quite realistic given my starting stats. I’ll try not to settle just for length, although girth is very troublesome for many guys it seems.

1) Any suggestions on my routine?

2) Is there an average for ‘rate of length growth’ in relation to ‘rate of girth growth’ for normal jelqing? For example, for every 2” of EL gained, one gains 1” of EG. I’m looking for an average or ballpark answer or maybe a specific thread about this. I know it varies a lot.

3) Last question, should I PE in front of my girlfriend of nearly three years? You’ll all say not to tell your girlfriend about PE in the first place, but too late for that. She already knows what the exercises look like because I showed her demonstrations when PE came up. Also, she does BE, Breast Enlargement, in front of me. It basically involves her massaging her breasts with special oils (along with taking supplements). It’s a pleasure to watch as you might imagine. The only reason I’m hesitant to PE in front of her is because I’m not sure if PE is “sexy.” Do you guys think she’d be grossed out or turned on by jelqing and/or clamping?

Of course, I think I’ll just ask her straight up too. I’m curious about your advice vs what she says too. I’ll update later.

PS
I’m posting here to more be more involved in the PE community, but mostly to keep myself motivated.

I would avoid the PE where you bend and twist your penis all sorts of different ways in front of her, and focus on jelqs and squeezes. Those exercises tend to engorge and make your unit look even larger. My wife (separated in spirit, will be divorcing, but are living together; friends but ultimately not the best lovers) had said that emotionally we shouldn’t make love again before she leaves for her sake (very low phyiscal intimacy, and I was the higher desire partner. Guys and girls, marrying your best friend is wonderful, but be lovers first. We were just too comfortable, starting off as fuck buddies who are great friends, but never really built the romance.

Anyway, she went to sleep, and I stayed up and was doing some work. I was finishing with some edging after jelqs and squeezes, she woke up and totally caught me, hard on in hand…and a few minutes later we were going at it (in her words I’ve always been a “great f***”, we just never progressed beyond the great itch scratching stage). After girth work it sits at nearly 6 inches in girth, so maybe that had something to do with it? :)

If you are doing it and she knows about it, why not let her see it if she wants to?

My wife knows I do it, she likes that I do it. She’s seen it and doesn’t like what she sees though. However, she was pleased, “you put yourself through that for me”, she asked. That makes it easier to get her assistance when I need the 50% erection for jelqing as I explained to her this morning.