For anyone who feels insecure about their penis size

I’ve felt extremely insecure as well about my relatively smaller unit, but at some point I realized that there is sooooo many more important things to women than penis size. Does size matter? Hell yeah it matters but EVERYTHING matters to women. They honestly are a completely different animal than us men so I think it’s hard for us to comprehend. Another thing to consider is if girl is going to resort to insulting your penis size, the likely reason she is doing so is because she knows it’s a sure fire way to cut to the core of us and make any man feel like complete shit. In my personal experience, whether or not your penis is actually small is usually besides the point. Women know they can fall back on the “well he has a small dick!” card pretty much whenever they want because it’s not like we go walking around with boners for the world to see all day and prove them wrong. Anyway I guess the reason I posted was because it just pisses me off that women seem to have the uncanny ability to make good guys(which seem like the majority of people here) suffer for something that we have really no control over. I know I wouldn’t do that to someone else so if a girl is willing to do that to me she’s not worth it in the first place. I know it’s a cliche but they can only hurt you if you let them. Hope this helped someone, thanks guys.

I agree but just in case you think guys have it bad, you should really look into the comments women get. I think most guys are way more harsh toward women than most women are to men. I heard even the nicest of my friends say some pretty cruel things to women. Most women are smart and you are right, they know how to use the “small dick” tactic to piss a guy off. We have our counter-measures too (ex. she could stick a watermelon up that well used nappy cunt). All I know is that most women I have dated were more accepting of my insecurities then I was of theirs.

Regardless of any of this babbling, the idea is to just not give a fuck and fuck women no matter what issues you or they have with your penis. That sounds like a great plan in my opinion. :)

So if a woman DOES insult you and say “oh, by the way, you have a small”, what would be the perfect comeback to such a comment?

There was a long thread on that a few months ago. Personally, I think it would be best to just walk away.

The best way is to never let a woman insult you O:-) .

unsungzero7, everything you say is true. It sounds like you have some bitterness. Have you been insulted by women? Do you think your dick is small?

True.

But I also like having the perfect zinger ready just in case.

Oh wait - now I remember. We did have a thread a while back on this. I remember the Tom Arnold insult that he used on Roseanne: “Bitch!…Even a 747 looks small in the grand canyon!”

Bam!

Here is the thread for comebacks:

Comebacks to “my old boyfriend was bigger”

You’re right, it is easy for a woman to throw out the ‘small dick’ put down but it only has power if you have bought into the psychology behind it. Often it is used in desperation as a last resort and masks something else that is much more important in your lady’s mind. the real problem is not connected but this is a quick win, an easy hit for her to throw at you.

If you can remain dispassionate and deal with the major problem then I think the jibe about your dick will lose its significance.

Ha no I haven’t actually had a woman tell me it’s small but I think it is (6” by 4.75), the reason I posted is because I read that thread regarding emotional insecurities and thought I might be able to help people conquer them like I did. But yah having a girl call it small was(maybe still is) probably my worst fear. Jordon pretty much said what I was trying to say in less words.

When you have reached your goal this will not happen anymore. A woman becomes completely unbelievable if she says that you have a small dick while her pussy is still gaping from your penetration.

There’s always the consolation, “that all be it is a small penis, it’s preferential to not having one at all.” Probably the whole concept behind the theory behind “penis envy.”

I have been fortunate in my lifetime to have avoided that level of a nasty breakup/fallout. So I’ve never heard any remarks to that effect regarding “little dick” and similar. If it was said behind my back, I’m not even aware of it. Anyhow, the art of diplomacy goes a long way. Don’t be a jerk and it shouldn’t escalate (rather deteriorate) to that level of insult and malicious hurt between two people.

:lisa2: riiiiight :babe5:

All right, that was mean of me. Although with the number of orgasms I have

oh never mind, let’s see, in apology, perfect zinger, perfect zinger…

Small dick insults are like Your Mamma insults. They aren’t really about your mamma. To go for the jugular with women you have to go after their heart. All women want to be loved, to find that perfect soulmate. Tell her that no man will ever love her, and not from some physical aspect, because that can change. Zero in on her personality and say “No man will ever love you because you’re a ********.” Fit the insult to her, and no lying down on the job. Not just bitch, but frosty bitch or doormat or moron or self-centered little cunt.

I have been a silent follower of this great site for a while now but have never posted before. The thing I most like about it here is that although the subject is perhaps mans greatest insecurity the sheer humanity just shines on this site! You may be interested in the following female ‘beheadings’;

About two years ago I overheard a quiet but heated argument in a London pub between a hard faced woman and a well dressed man,.in a well educated voice I heard the man say; “Well my dear, I realy can’t say if a ‘real’ man would find you lovable,.after all, you must admit that you are’nt particularly likeable”

Also, I used to have a friend who believed that any discussion about his penis with a woman should always be combined with discussion of the shape, form, size and texture of her behind. His theory based on experience was that the majority of women are as sensitive about their behinds as men are about their fronts.