My Girlfriend's view on Penis Size

I have been thinking on whether to post this or not for quite some time due to the personal nature and the fact that this is only my second thread. But anyway here goes. Treat me gently :)

I just had this discussion with my girlfriend over my penis size. When it comes to penis size she is very reserved and on the most part very uninterested in discussing it. She knows that I PE and has noticed the size difference that it has made. According to her i don’t need to keep on doing PE since she likes what i have (i have gone from 5.75” bpel by 5” girth to almost 7” bpel by 5.75” girth). According to her, anything bigger would be exaggerated. Her previous boyfriends were all on the small side so she cannot compare me with anything bigger. She is a very honest and truthful girl. However girlfriend’s views on penis size in general and the actual truth may often be miles apart! Could she be saying this not to hurt my feelings?

I feel I want to keep on going, because after all i am doing this for myself. The problem is we have been together for over 3 years and have a very strong and committed relationship, and after all her opinion carries quite a lot of importance for me. Another problem is that we have not had sex (religious beliefs + other personal reasons) thus she does not know what she would prefer when it comes to penis size during sex. We currently do everything but sex and so penis size only serves as a visual/physical (but non-vaginal) stimuli for her at this stage.

What do you think I should do? Keep on growing? Stop where I am until we have sex? Any suggestions?

Thanks for listening.

BMT

Go bigger,

And when you two finally hook up.

It’s all good.

She will appreciate your size regardless if she loves you as you expressed.

But a little bigger won’t hurt anything say 8x6.

BTW when are you getting married?

zep

Hey Ledzep,

Thanks for your input.

8X6 is actually my goal.

Marriage is on the cards but due to finances might be still a bit away…..

When you penetrate her vagina with your fingers, does she feel tight? Somewhat loose?

I’d gauge by that. You are already well above average, and if she feel a little tight on your fingers, chances are your current size will do her a world of good.

PE is not a race. You are adequate to work for her as is. If you find later that she can take more, go for it. It would suck to be too big so as to cause her pain and potentially ruin her outlook on sex for a long time to come…

Hey RB,

With my fingers she does not seem too tight. Although (being a virgin) she tells me she feels slighlty uncomfortable when I do this. She has a medium frame.

I think she could handle what I have at the moment. But like you said, maybe i should not go over the limit, as i will not be able to turn back later.

I know PE is not a race, but I think i might have become addicted :)
Its a great feeling to be able to change the appearance of such an important part of my body! Maybe I should work on flaccid length, although I do not know if this can be increased without increasing erect length.

Try the fowfer or “lazy ass stretch” if you want to add to the flaccid length. I dont know either if it only affects flaccid length but I know it does help flaccid … a lot. Run a search on fowfer if you don’t know about these yet.

hey long2Blong

Thanks for the info. I will do a quick search.

I say keep at it man! My girl says I’m fine with my size and “dont need any more”….at my current (soon to change) 7.5x6”. I’m also doing this for ME. She’s eventually getting larger breasts even though I honestly dont see that she needs them. She’s doing it for HER so she’ll feel better about her looks. I’ll stop when I’M happy with my penis.

I always question how honest women are really being about preferred size. Jennifer seems to love my penis more and more as it gets bigger and bigger…but when I ask her if she likes it she always says it’s perfect *confused*

BMT, 1st off if she loves you then she should understand you are doing this for you and no one else. I liken it to the other PE (Physical Exercise) in that you are doing it for a healthier you both physically and mentally. PE is good for your penis numerous men on this forum started this for harder and longer erections it just so happen they did develop a LONGER and harder erection. So if it makes you feel good to PE I say keep on doing it. Cause no one can make you happy but yourself.

later…

bmt, how about just keeping up 50% erect jelqing for length and penis health, and blasting for length as well? I’d leave the girth alone until you’ve had a chance to see if the shoe fits :)

If you get enough length to sink home to her cds the first time you penetrate her, well, things will be looking up for you :)

If you wanna keep pe’ing, I’d work only on length, and attack girth later if it’s needed.

My guess is that you are both young.

If you are not having premarital sex, good for you both!!

I think that she may be a little afraid of your size it is a little above average. If you feel certain that this is the one you will marry it may ease her anxiety about it if you back off for now. However you do not want to set up a situation where you have to beg for permission to restart later. I don’t think its a good idea to set your self up to be begging for approval of every little aspect of your life. But reasonable give and take is OK.

My wife is a C cup breast. I actually prefer this size to women with D size boobs. However if my wife would announce that she wanted to do exercises to increase her cup size to D (yes there is such a thing) I would support her - its her body after all and she needs to be satisfied with it. Well the same holds true for men and penis size. I was “just fine” at 6.0x5.0 then “just fine” again at 7.0x5.5 and “just fine” again at 7.75x5.5. The point is she may genuinely think that what you have is perfect bordering on too big (she may be right). Once you have tried each other out for a while you may find that you have some room for growth, then go ahead. If not - if she is still too snug a fit hold what you got. Howevr after childbirth I predict you’ll be back at it.

I agree totally.

Yeah this is a big problem for many guys i think. How can we tell whether our woman is being truthful, especially since they say our size is perfect at every growth stage!

Hey Jojo. My girl does love me. But unfortunately (or not) she loves me to the point of ignoring physical features and accepting me the way i am. If I were to get any bigger she would still accept me that way. It is just that she cannot seem to understand the need for PE! Hopefully this is just a transitional phase and when I reach my goal, she will be happy too :)

On the one hand I want to wait to see “if the shoe fits”, on the other hand I also want to make the foot bigger! :)

I agree, I’m doing it for me only wish that I’d learned about this long ago. Starting late and need to catch up. Been PE’ing for about a month.

DLD - any advice to a 63 year old; had a Vesectomy 40 years ago after #4 was born, and a hernia operation about 4 years ago.
Any help would be appreciated.

Start Flaccid: Length: 3.25”, Girth: 3.00”
Erect: Length:5.85”, Girth:4.25”

Now: Flaccid: Length: 3.50”, Girth: 3.25”
Erect: Length: 6.10”, Girth: 4.50”

I do about 1000 Kegels/Day, just started to add the Reverse kegels, about 15 minutes of wet jalq, 15 minutes of manual stretches not counting the stretches I do every time I go to the toilet.
Thanx

Wow…GrowingUp I love to see older people do this…It is so cool. I would be honored to write a routine for you. Give me a bit of time. I will PM you.