My Girlfriend's view on Penis Size

My g/f has been with smaller, bigger and myself.

She didn’t enjoy the largest she’s been with, from the sounds of it, somewhere near 8” … no idea on girth.

She tells me I’m perfect… I do PE for myself… and she knows it.

She’s told me since I started PE’n that I’ve grown, I don’t notice a huge difference, but she does notice it.
I’d like to gain 1” length and girth in the end…

We’ve bought sex toys together… and the last one she bought was 7x4.5” or so… A little bigger than myself. I’m below average on girth. And she’s owned other vibrators that were larger in girth and shorter in length. She likes the newest one best.

I’ve asked her about this… and she’s been completely honest with me. She even said.. “I wouldn’t buy a smaller, bigger vibrator for your ego” … which made me feel great.

Recently she’s stopped using Vibrators, due to the fact she tells me, it just doesn’t compare to myself …

When you’re truly in love, penis size doesn’t matter IMO. Maybe in micropenis situations … or too big.

My girl is a small framed girl, and I can hit her cervix no problem with my current lenght.

But like it was posted in another thread, if you go too big … you can actually hurt the girl without proper preparation and caution while going wild ;)

I think in the end, it’s the men that penis size truly does matter… as long as you know how to use what you got and are a good lover. It’s all fine in the end.

Bigger is better if you know how to use it, and that’s what your lover wants. Hence your ladies reply I think DLD… meaning she loves what you got and loves any gains. Kinda like my woman… loves me now and won’t complain about any gains.

We are very lucky to have such wonderfuls gals!

I think she is consistently being honest with you. It’s perfect because it’s yours and she digs you.

I understand RBs reservation about making sure you don’t get to big for your woman. I’ve hurt a girl before even being average and I felt like a rapist.

I think there is a strange benefit to me being a slow gainer in that I’m constantly able to adept to my size.

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Really? Haven’t heard about this. Has it been discussed here before?

Thats a tough one, I would say go for it and gain as much as you want there is just no way to tell how much she can handle till she……..tries to handle it.

Guys thanks for all your replies.

You’ve all helped immensly.

Thanks again

In my opinion, PE is something mostly related to our egos and has little to do with better satisfying our partners. I am at 8” (BPEL) and 5.75” (EG) and am still trying to get bigger. So, it should go as it can (of course no more than 10”). Don’t restrict yourself to your girlfriend’s thoughts. Who guarantees that she will be the only lover in your life?.

Wow, I read this thread first in the morning after having arrived in the office. I really think it is a very delicate question BMT is posting here, even more because of the physical (virginity) and religious background. When reading Ledzeps post I thought “Oh shit, people from a different culture, not digging the overall situation with BMT and his girlfriend, just turn to the standard “Ideal Size Debate”, which is completely inappropriate here. I am very grateful that RB and Luvdadus took a very thoughtful position here, not being carried away by our common understanding that size matters. BMT, I assume you did not crack any other girl before nether? I really believe that it is very important to start out gentle and understanding, harmonic. After this stage it will get different aspects like “grinding her” and “showing it in till she’s gasping” and so on and so forth. I am shy of 6” in girth and my girlfriend is experienced and 30 years old, but still there are times when she gets really upset if I shove it in at first, saying “slowly - s l o w l y I said!” and beats me. She’s serious about it. Well, blablabla… what I wanted to say: It will be a great advantage to start out playful, to slip it in (from behind, from the side, in the shower etc…) without too much caution to “bury the beast”. Keep your chance to develop a playful sexuality with your girlfriend and don’t try to build a weapon yet, you got so much time!!! And saying “Maybe I am addicted” is no argument at all, to the contrary it shows your insight that it might not be reasonable but that you can’t help it. This is addiction to be fought !!!

BMT, it’s amazing that in these times that you are dating and going to marry a virgin. That’s great. I assume you both plan on staying that way til after you get married? If so, then i would recommend moderation with PE. Just maintain or minimal growth until you get the chance for a test drive.

Her being a virgin, it’s pretty sure that you will fill her up. You can always add more later.

DLD, “I love to see older people do this”. Your definition of “older” will change as you get older. When i was your age, i thought 50 was old. Now that i’m in my mid 50s, i still feel young. Right now, i’m in the best sexual and physical condition of my whole life and having the best sex of my whole life. I hope that gives you something to look forward to. It does me.

Hey L born XXL buried

Thanks for understanding the delicate nature of my post.

I don’t intend to build some weapon of destruction, I would just like to feel a bit more secure about the way my dick looks. Maybe saying that I am addicted was going to far. Maybe I should have said that PE has made a big difference and I am not yet ready to throw in the towel just yet.

Yeah that is our plan although marriage is still a couple of years away. When you say minimal growth what do you mean? I am currently almost 7”bpel by 5.5-5.75”girth. What would you suggest is too much at this stage?

thanks for listening

>>Really? Haven’t heard about this. Has it been discussed here before?>>

somebody mentioned a site in peforums, I’ll look up the link.

BMT,

wow a real live virgin! two of them…….lol j/k

May I ask why you PE? I know you might say for yourself, but at your present size you are already well above average.

To top it off you have a virgin girl…..do you not know you will rip her in half when you guys do have sex?

I’ve cracked (asl XXL Buried so eloquently put it…lol) a few virgins in my “career” and let me tell you, they can’t take much at all….It’s very painful for them and its hurts for awhile for them….

Also, it seems like you have a decent girl that cares about you and little about your dick size so this might be a time that IMO I wouldn’t reccomend you trying to get bigger…..but to each his own….just my opinion.

DLD,

What?? You’re writing personal programs out for people now? Hmmm….. a PErsonal trainer…..what is your hourly? : ) lol

Thanks for your input bigblackstick.

BMT,

first off, congrats to your gains, but I don’t understand one thing:

If you guys never had sex so far, how does she know that what you have is enough for her? She might find out that, either, you’re too big or maybe not big enough for her when you finally have sex with her.

Don’t get me wrong, Bro, I’m not putting you down or trying to raise doubts in your head, but how can she say that your big enough for her?

Just a thought……;)

I know the answer to this one even though BMT will explain himself. Most adolescents think of “sex” as vaginal or anal penetrative sex, otherwise its just fooling around (the Bill Clinton definition of sex).