For The First Time A Girl Will See My Dick

Hello guys , fellas , the friendly and understanding people of thunders place
First of all I want to apologize for my language and grammar , since English is not my native language , I’m still struggling with learning English.

On Saturday a girl ,who I am really in to and I really like, will come to my house. I am 5’7 tall and I guess she is 5’6 or smth. So she is quite tall for me and I guess she is probably capable of taking big dicks in. But I know that she never had sex before and me neither. There is also a possibility of she have never seen a dick before but also nobody has seen my dick( because I didn’t want to show it). The problem is that my dick is NBPEL 5.6 and my girth is 4.25 and I’m kinda insecure about it and afraid to show it, she is very attractive , pretty and has a nice physique. I was wondering if you guys have something to say to me or experienced something like this before.

In a word, relax. Don’t over think it.

Sex for women is far more a mental exercise than physical. You have more than enough penis to manage the physical aspect. Make her feel comfortable. Be funny. Listen more than talk. When I say listen, I mean understand what she is saying, don’t be thinking of what you plan to say after her mouth stops moving. Good luck!

Make her smile, be attentive to her needs, ask her good questions, listen intently, and when you do finally get to the physical part, be passionate and expend your emotional energy exploring her.

If you don’t think about your dick you will do great.

If you display confidence in your body and who you are this will help her to feel confident about who she is and help her to be at ease. If you get hung up about what you think is not right about you this will emanate out to her and she will in turn likely become more guarded and hung up about both of your insecurities.

Show her how to be confident in who she is by being confident in yourself.

There is always a bigger dick out there, it’s the dudes who don’t care that get the girl.

This is true because great sex does not require a big dick. This you will learn with experience.

Enjoy your date with her, life is short.

Godspeed.

She’s just as nervous as you are! You can’t pretend you the only one in the relationship, Be proud that you get to do what humans do, look if you walk into a bank alone and you see someone looking scared in front of you it makes you scared as well because that person is scared.

Hi sickomodee,

Even if she already had sex with someone before, she most likely will be as anxious and nervous as you are. We use to watch too much porn and we are learning aesthetic patterns that are not real (PORN IS NOT A NORMAL PATTERN, IT’S EXCEPTION). You are feeling pressured by being normal. The world is pretty much fucked up, don’t you see?

Enjoy your moment. It’s your first time and you will have a lot of fun. You deserve this!!! She already chose you!!

My advice is, enjoy her whole skin as a big endless erogenous area. Explore, watch her body language and learn what touch, what kiss, what pace makes her smile more. Don’t rush things, you don’t have to do everything at the same time. She may be shy, so she can be a bit frozen. It’s important that you brake this ice and make her feel as much comfortable as possible.

Even if you had a monster cock, you shouldn’t focus on penetration only… Fingers and thong do some magic tricks. Feet, armpit, ribs, nipples, breast… everything is allowed. Enjoy her body! Special attention to her clit.

Have fun!!

Everything these guys said above. Additionally, don’t worry about her “being able to take big dicks in”. Height doesn’t always equate with vaginal depth. I’m sure it will be awkward for you both. Hell, I blew it just getting a condom on, but I had never masturbated before (I was 20), so that had a lot to do with it. Enjoy each others’ company and don’t worry about trying to give her some mind blowing orgasm.. The chances of that happening are slim to none. Focus more on the emotional connection and care more about her than yourself and it’ll be awesome. Make sure that you take the time to comfort and cuddle after.she’s going to be very emotional too.

Use a condom. Be a man. Actually that might be too much right now, some thing to work towards. For now, use a condom, have fun.

This forum is mostly about growing your dick but she doesn’t care at all about the size of your dick.

She cares if you are a good guy, be nice to her, be attentive to her. Show real interest in her, make her feel special as if she is the most important person on the planet.

Be comfortable in your own skin and relax and she will too.

You’re essentially in the range of average, so 99% chance once she wants to take your clothes off, she’ll be perfectly fine and want what she sees. If you were 1” then maybe not but at average you’ll be fine unless she is a complete size queen (and if that’s all she cares about, she isn’t worth it).