Like Slackjawedyokel, I have had the opposite experience since starting PE in December 2004. When I wake at night or in the morning, I’ve got one and you can’t bend it. As for pleasuring, it’s rock hard.
I’m satisfied with the length increment erect so far - more will come - but girth needs some more work.
December 2004
Flaccid length 95 mm (3.75”)
Flaccid girth 104 mm (4.09”)
BP Erect length 132 mm (5.19”)
Erect girth 127 mm (5.00”)
April 2005
Flaccid length 131 mm (5.16”) Inc 36 mm (1.41”)
Flaccid girth 128 mm (5.04”) Inc 24 mm (0.94”)
BP Erect length 171 mm (6.73”) Inc 39 mm (1.53”)
Erect girth 133 mm (5.24”) Inc 6 mm (0.24”)
Goal, whatever will maximise the delirious grin on my wife’s face ~ 7.5 x 6.25