How do I keep hard

Whats a good rule of thumb for figuring out what a good state of hardness is to do the wet jelqs in the newbie routine? In the videos the wang looks quite hard.

Hello mighty sparrow,

Frankly I really don’t know what “a good rule of thumb” is :)
Wet jelq need to be done with different state of hardness (Maybe it because we’re at different level of PEing).

For the first time you read “How to jelq”, you’re told to do wet jelqing with semi-erection penis. Later, you’re recommended to start with 60 to 80% of erection penis.

After then, some are recommended to go up to 85% erection penis. But not a full erection penis, because it helps nothing beside injuring your penis.

Talking about the Videos offered by Thundersplace, the “nice” guy in the video seems to have a lot of experiences on PEing, so if you have just started, do what you thought fit for your penis. You know what? When I first watched the Video of Manual Stretching, I feel “OUWW!, was it hurt?” He stretched his penis like it’s not a penis :D

Hope it helps,

Best regards,

D’

While still gripping the base of your penis, massage the glans with your other hand. The stimulation will get you to partial erection.

Well, it’s not in general, OK? But playing with your glans too much could make you want to pee more than usual, it happened to me :)

Best regards,

D’

I don’t know how you guys do it but I actually lose my semi-erection if I do any kegeling. I guess I still have alot to learn.

Hi Alias,

I guess you mean you are kegeling while erection right?

Remember that kegel improves more blood flow into your penis while erection, but you can do kegels at any time you want.

Best regards,

D’

I’m pretty sure I’m still not doing them at enough of an erection level.

My man is bigger fatter and longer than a totally flacid state.. But still pretty floppy and stretchy when I do the jelqs..

Eh.. But I suppose jeqs at that level do serve their purpose. (I remember some guy was saying that he thought jelqs at a lower level were actually more beneficial) I just don’t want any baseball bat stuff happening..

Another thing that I am totally unsure of is how much pressure I am applying/should be applying

The overhand ok grip should seal all the way around yes? (Because it is possible to firmly “squeeze” the penis with a firm grip that doesnt actually totally “seal” if you know what I mean)

Do you loosten or tighten as the jelq progreses to make up for the swelling as the blood gets trapped?

(Ps I’m not very skilled at searching/researching yet.. I’m really sorry for redundancy)

Hey mighty sparrow,

> mighty sparrow said I just don't want any baseball bat stuff happening..
Sometime you can’t avoid from thing that is supposed to happen :D Don’t worry, I wish you can get rid of it. Just do the right thing and question if you doubt about things you are going to do.

> mighty sparrow said Another thing that I am totally unsure of is how much pressure I am applying/should be applying
You’re the one who must know about it. HOW? Start it from loostening up your OK grip and see how it feel while jelqing, then make your OK grip a little tighter ( in this case, it means you put more pressure to jelq)

> mighty sparrow said Do you loosten or tighten as the jelq progreses to make up for the swelling as the blood gets trapped?
Tighten up your OK grip to trap blood.

Hope that helps,

Best regards,

D’

Thanks, I see it’s really just like anything else in life you can only REALLY learn by doing and comming to your own conclusions. It seams like the stakes are so high here, however

No, the stake here is not so high :D I’m also newbie.