Originally Posted by naz.barb
Glad to see you here, 114life. Your posts are always a revelation. I can really tell the experience and confidence you built up in PEing. I have a question about your technique though. I’ve never heard of the necessity of kegeling for regular wet jelqs. In fact some other posts around TP even suggest not to kegel blood in while jelqing (at least on a beginner level). Am I missing something here?After a quick search, I stumbled across this resource How to Jelq - Professional Jelqing and wondered how exactly kegeling in should protect from further trauma
I appreciate the accolade, though it’s not deserved. I haven’t made any breakthroughs. What I know is from this forum and from reading the experiences of those willing to share before me. That’s what makes it so great here.
Kegeling before a jelq isn’t widely recommended, as most of the people that would read it, would just do it without regard to conditioning or experience. That’s evidenced in all the posts and requests for routines that we often see. It’s like asking a bodybuilder what they do to have such massive muscles. The response is “oh, I just lift this inordinate amount of weight 100 times a day” then the new guy, without any experience or conditioning tries to lift the same and gets squished. Everybody has to start somewhere, it’s best to start safe and then move up.
You definitely don’t want to kegel during the jelq, ever. The kegel will try to move blood, and if your hand is stopping it, you may damage the muscle and the valves. So don’t. Before the exercise only. For the same reason, you don’t want to kegel or cum while a clamp is fully engaged, tightly ringed is also risky, in my opinion.
I find kegels in conjunction with the jelq a necessity to get the expansion I’m looking for. I’m using them for girth, specifically. I also only do one-handed jelqs. Seldom, my off hand will assist my jelqing wrist to aid the slide down the shaft.
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Kegel Enhancement
Between each stroke prior to fully tightening the grip at the base, kegel and hold until the grip is fully in place. This produces a much larger pump at any erection level and perversely allows higher erection levels to handled without excessive trauma.
I believe what this means is, you can enhance the engorgement without having to work it as hard. You could squeeze the hell out of it and get really hard, or kegel it in, and squeeze it just a little to the same affect. If you’re not working it as hard to get the same result, the likelihood of trauma should also be reduced. Yet, another safe recommendation.
How I use the kegel with a jelq for girth
This is definitely not for you if: You’re new to jelqing or faint of heart. This is a very intense jelq. At the slightest twinge or tickle, reduce your intensity immediately or stop and restart with a lesser grip. Keeping the jelq motion slow is key to expansion and safety. If you move too fast you may overcome the vascular abilities of your dick and pop something.
I do this both wet and dry. However being circumcised, when dry, I don’t squeeze nearly as hard. It’s too harsh on the skin.
This should be done very slowly and very deliberately. With a 90%+ erection, I start my overhand grip as close to the base as possible, right up in my fat pad. Tourniquet squeeze, and see that your glans has expanded, relax the squeeze and at the same time kegel and hold, reapply the tourniquet, release the kegel. I sometimes do this several times in quick succession. You should be maxed out and fully engorged at this point, almost painfully. As you slowly start the jelq, slowly release the bottom of the tourniquet, by straightening your thumb and finger where they meet, move down the shaft. Ultimately focusing your grip on the sides of the shaft, not the top or bottom. You’ll likely find the optimal place to release the tourniquet completely, switching to more of a C grip, is mid to lower shaft. Don’t go all the way to the glans, stop before you get there. The hold at the end is up to you. If I did it right, and slowly enough, I don’t think the hold does any good. If you do it right, you will probably agree.
Be very careful with the tourniquet grip. Go slow. I can’t say that enough. Slow gives things time to expand and adjust and it also gives you time to react if it’s a little too intense. Slow.
-Stay safe