How many tell their spouseGF about PE

Good morning,

I was wondering home many here tell their significant other/partner they are growing their dick.

I’m personally not ready to tell my wife; it’s a combination of things First is her claim that I’m already too big; secondly is the notion that PE is inextricably linked to some male insecurity.

Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m a very confident fella, but for some reason, I feel awkward telling my wife that I want a longer and slightly fuller tool to work with.

After she bore two kids, it’s quite a bit looser. I enjoy the fullness that intercourse provides with a c-ring, but the same ring deadens some sensation.. This leads to the obvious conclusion: I’ll try to grow that same 5-1/2 to 5-3/4” girth that the c-ring provides, as without it, my natural diameter simply feels loose.

I’m simply curious how many here are able to be open about it.

Cheers,

-Horseman-

Mine is a supporter. She is scared but skeptical on how big I might get. Makes me want to try a little harder. But we are both enjoying the journey.

Me and my girl are open about it but she doesnt like it too much. I had to tell her because I was pumping my penis to extreme increase in girth.

I waited until the third time she said, “I think it’s getting bigger” which took about six months as I recall. She’s been a “big” (will, “bigger” at least) supporter ever since!

I am stealth since my GF is nowhere near my kinky side. She has almost no sex drive, as opposed to mine, which is off the roof. So, decided to keep my PE routine down to manuals and ADS at work.

However, during the pre-conditioning stage of my PE journey, we had sex /Sunday, as I recall correctly/. She, right with my first insertion, noted that I am big. For 10 years into our relationship I have never heard a definitive statement like this before.

I’m right here with you; my wife and I have be n married almost 25 years, and her drive is very low too, but mine is off the charts.

For her, an orgasm every 7-10 days is adequate, but in her defense, she usually has consecutive orgasms for 10-20 minutes.

She attempted a BJ last night, but I had pumped a little while she showered and a remark was made that it just seemed “bigger than last time”. I explained to her that it can get larger when the arousal is heightened; she felt good about herself then and finished the task, but gagged a lot and clearly had some difficulty. This is why I’m trying to limit girth gains, as I already receive fewer “oral treats” than I’d like.

If she found I was attempting to get larger, she would complain, yet she has some of her strongest climaxes when I wear a C-ring. She’s the one that gave me the Equine nickname anyway.

-Horseman-

My girl is all for it, she will suck me off for a little bit to get me fully erect before I pump, she says the extra girth after pumping makes her cum easier and squirt, she does think my normal size is great but loves when I really stretch her out!

Lucky you!! Mine thinks a 5-1/4” girth is almost impossible, but periodically goes down on me from the side, and it’s just the wrong orientation. I try to explain that but she’s kind of a lazy lover. If she oriented herself such that her tongue was on top of the cock, or underneath, it would be easier, as mine is wider than it is high.. Like a mouth ;)

-Horseman-

Told my wife about jelqing but I’m not sure she would get on board with hanging, pumping, or clamping. Maybe once I started getting some results. She did agree that if she could just squeeze her tits and they would get bigger she definitely would.

My wife got angry and told me not to ruin “her” perfect cock. So I’ve been doing stealth PE

My Gf knows. She’s cool with it. My ex wife knew as well and surprisingly that didn’t bite me in the ass. I wasn’t quite as serious about it then as I am now though. I haven’t told my gf the extent of my PE but she knows about it and enjoys the effects.

I have only told one of my partners that I do PE, my most recent ex. She was very supportive because she was enjoying the benefits of it too during sex. Other than her, nobody IRL knows about it.

May the gains be with you!

That is similar to what I suspect my wife would say! What are the measurements on your “perfect cock”, if I might ask?

Good luck keeping it on the he down low!

-Horseman-

LOL

I haven’t told my GF yet but I’m not opposed to doing so. She has started to notice some discoloration from pumping so I might have to sometime soon.

I told my wife after the first month or so. She’s supportive but thinks PE is “weird”. She was happy with my starting size but really enjoys my current size. She’s made mention that she can tell it’s bigger but also doesn’t want it to get “too big”. In her eyes, I might have a good pump session and wake up 8x6 tomorrow. Tried to tell her that’s not how it works and discussed my goals/timeline with her. She’s a little more understanding and supportive now.