I think i have ruined it?

I accidentally put this in the wrong forum before, sorry if this upsets the moderators, I had no reply before - please help, seriously worried and would like to carry on PE’ing one day. Thanks all!!!

Well, I have been doing PE for just over a year but have been on a break for about 4 months, I stopped cos I started to feel a hard bonelike feeling in my penis, mainly just below the head, but the rest of it by the base is still A LOT harder than normal, its NOT hard in a pleasent more erect way, it has always been more erect than most guys can get, it is almost verticle. It’s just that now it feels VERY uncomfortable to grip when masturbating (bone-like), there is no pain whatsoever when I ejaculate or after I ejaculate, But if I try to masturbate again on the same day there is a very blatent ache near the head of my penis and it forces me to stop touching. I just need to know urgently if this will be the same for the rest of my life? It happened after PE, and I have had it for 3 or 4 months, will it get better after a long time? Thank you so much in advance for all replies!

Is this bony discomfort around the whole circumference of the penis, or is there a narrow line of hardness running from head to base somewhere? If the latter, perhaps it’s a badly thrombosed vein?? It’s hard to understand what you might be describing…

I don’t think its a thrombosed vein, the glans is fine, but about a cm down from it, it is VERY boney all the way down to the base, but only on either side of my penis. The main boney bit is just a cm down from the glans which actually makes my dick fatter there, but solid and boney when gripped. I can’t use the standard grip to masturbate anymore cos it feels boney and horrible.

One other question… my girlfriends ex was huge, about 11 inches, freakily big, he was a tall guy too, and im short with a small dick, I heard that womens vaginas grow accustomed to a big size after many times of intercourse, she was with him for 7 years… I just want to know if she will tighten up if she doesn’t have sex for a while? So I can please her more. Thank you all SO much for your time and patience with me!

Hey people, I just wondered if threads die after they have had a reply and people move on to the next one? Someone please respond to me :)

Vaginas will return to some former state if she has not had sex with him for a while (so I have heard). The ex that was ‘huge’, I seriously doubt he was 11 Inches - probably nearer 8. Even if she said “I’m not lying I errr…umm.. measured it and everything” I think she’s lying.

Rundown,

Are you sure you’re not just feeling the outline of the tunica? Are your erections that hard that all you can feel is the veins that feel “boney” to you?

My dick also gets very hard and it feels like that all the time. My wife loves it!

As far as getting sore after masturbation goes, I also get too sore to touch if things got a little ruff between me and Mrs Palmer.

If there is no pain, maybe it not as bad as you think?

The only thing I can think of is you improved the bloodflow to your penis considerably allowing it to now get fully erect like it should. But your dick may not be accustomed to the power of the erection yet making it hurt a little.

There is a strong possibility that the hard bit that you are feeling is scar tissue – perhaps a legacy from past exertions in PE – and this could, when you have an erection, be behaving in a “tourniquet” manner and causing the blood flow from your deep veins to be somewhat restricted (obviously the main dorsal vein is not affected).

I don’t know of any guaranteed way in which you could alleviate this – perhaps heat and massage (not PE) may help.

With reference your good lady, I would suggest that you encourage her to take up pelvic floor exercises: this will eventually give her more “grip” (and incidentally, also add to her enjoyment when you get together!).

Good luck,

E2

Hey Piet,

Don’t want to sidetrack the discussion, but I am looking at your avator numbers. You appear to have started about where I am starting. How long did it take you to hit that number dude,that’s exactly where I want to be.

Hey all, i like the responses here, been depressed throughout the day and reading this has cheered me up, I like talking to you guys… In reference to the guy thinking that she was bullshitting about 11 inches… I know most girls would, but the girl I am with took years of hunting, she is cute, she isn’t a very sexual person, she tried to hide the fact that he was so well hung, she hated telling me, She even said “maybe he is 8 inches, but he told me he is 11 inches”. After this I asked for her to tell me straight and she gritted her teeth and said that he was nearly double the length of me, she cried when she realised she had hurt my feelings so bad. I know it would be easy for her to lie still, but I really am sure of her, we are in love.. but enough of the mushy stuff. She has never been able to release much cum, she just gets wet, does this mean im not good enough and she aint enjoying it very much? Or do some girls enjoy it as much without dripping juices?

Thank you all so much for the current replies. And to the other posts… I have always been this hard, no harder lately, can actually see it is thicker about a cm below the glands from this very hard thing under my penis, it don’t allow my hand to slide up and down my penis comfortably when masturbating, please continue this thread :D

Thanks all! great replies, take care

I think I started PE’ing in 2000 although for the first 3 years I didn’t really know what to do.

You shouldn’t ask about the size of former bf’s if you can’t handle one of them being bigger than you, girls will always lie or exaggerate trying to make you feel bad about your penis.

rundown,

He wasn’t 11 inches. Half the guys that come here (including me!) have a story about how their girlfriend’s ex was inhumanly huge, and every guy has his reasons why HIS girlfriend’s story is accurate, while the others’ girlfriends’ stories weren’t. Repeat after me: He wasn’t 11 inches (maybe 1 in 100,000 guys is this big naturally — I’m not even sure I’ve seen a PE’ed porno dick that long). That said, if she’s a good-hearted honest girl, there’s a good chance he was bigger than you, but PE can change that.

Next: Some women get soaking wet, others don’t. Don’t take this as a reflection of your performance. Ask her what she enjoys. Give her lots of oral sex. Try lots of penetration angles. Experiment freely. You’ll discover what satisfies and what doesn’t.

About the bony thing: I still have no idea what you could be describing. Can you take a picture and post it in the Members Pictures section? That would help us to understand. I still think it could be two thrombosed veins (on top and on bottom), but I’m biased because I seem to get thrombosed veins very easily, from the base all the way up to close to the head.