Importance of full erection for gaining when PE

Hey guys, I’m all new here! First of all, sorry if sometimes my english is not accurate as I’m french!! Thanks.

I am about to start doing PE, more precisely the newbie routine and I had one particular question..

First, I feel really insecure with the size of my penis, in erection it’s 5.11 BPEL x 4, and in flacid state it’s 2.95x3.50, and in this particular state it looks really small..

Since this stresses me out a lot, and I am kind under a depression state of mind, it is very hard for me to get a full nice erection.

I am able to attain a 50-70% erection, so that’s enough for PE, but my lack of sex drive and self confidence, prevents me to have a good erection..

My question is as followed : I have been checking quite lots threads of this forum and it seems that quite lot people manage to have nice good erections.. And in general those people were making gains..

So my question is : Do you think it is necessary that to have from time to time full erections to let the maximum amount of blood flow go through the penis and so that the penis get used to the new increased amount ( I hope you get the point) or if even without having full erections, it is possible to make same gains as someone who wouldn’t have ED.

Also, as I’m pretty thin,( the girth of the penis), I was wondering if it seems easier to gain girth when thinner or it doesn’t make any difference..

Thanks a lot guys

Hey man I have had periods where my erections was horrible where I only would hang weights and not do jelqs and it never stopped my gains in length. I am sure if you start the newbie routine your erections will get much stronger and I am sure you will get some nice newbie gains! Have you done any PE routines yet?

Are you currently on SSRI or any other antidepressant medication?

I’d wonder how one would properly measure gains without a good erection? Bonepressed flaccid stretched length works of course, but won’t tell you anything about girth gains. No good answer for or against on that one.

As for girth gains, we all start out different and gain easily or hard, regardless of our starting sizes - and thus it’s hard to know if one or the other starting size is different gains-wise.

Hey guys, thanks for the answers!

Bluray: I have just tried one time for the moment, just to see how it felt, to evaluate how much pressure I should put on the jelqing movement and tried also the stretching. I am about to start next week with the 2days/ 1 day off routine.

Mgus: I am under no medications of any sort, it’s just that I think with time I lost my sex drive since I never took the step of making love with someone (I’m 26 by the way), this size problem always stayed in my mind but even more recently when I was in bed with a girl for the first time and couldn’t have any erection because of the stress and the total lack of confidence with my size. Before that event, I managed it okay, it was in the back of my mind but never thought too much about it, but since this event ( 2 months ago) it got back on my face reminding me that it was the main reason of my sadness and insecurity in life. Now it is almost always in my mind and it’s really not good for my moral health.

Thanks again guys!

Are you certain of this?

Don’t let your size get the best of you. I am NBPEL 4.5 X 4.7 and can be under 1” flaccid length when it’s not warm. I have been married for 38 years and my wife has never complained about our sex life. Although I am still waiting for permanent gains, I have been pumping for 3 months (after completing the newbie routine) and can temporarily enhance my penis to BPEL 4.8 X 5.

Thanks guys,

Angus: When I say this, I mean it’s really the main thing that always represented a blockage for me.. Of course I wanted to have girl friends younger, have fun and everything, but every time the same problem came back, the insecurity with my size, plus the fact that I’m quite shy didn’t help! My big fear is mostly to not give pleasure to a woman and to not make her happy.. It would have been ok if size didn’t really matter, but nowadays this size stuff has entered so much in the murses, that I feel out of the ‘competition’.. I imagine myself finding the woman of my life, and not satisfying her sexually because of my small size, and it really freaks me out..

Warren: Thanks a lot for the reconfort man, it would my dream to be like you and to achieve a love life, but my lack of experience and my size concern really played on my self confidence, now I feel that I have to work on myself to have this confidence and to erase those problem out of my head. I know deep inside myself that I could achieve something if I really believed in me, but my ego tends to put me down, and to maintain that state of mind until I have sorted my size issue.

Thanks fellas

Improved erections is one of first signs of proper PE, so I say give it a shot. :) If you do it carefully and use your brain there’s really nothing to lose.

Agreed. And better flaccid hang as well.

Stretch, Jelq, and Kegel. Start slowly. Use heat. Love yourself - sometimes that takes some work/practice too : )

You will achieve your goals if you are patiently consistent over the course of time.

Thanks for the advices guys, you rock!