Intro Searching for the Safest Way to Progress
Hi everybody. I found this forum about 4-5 years ago. I didn’t really “lurk”, I would just stop in occasionally when I was bored. Initially, my attitude towards PE was “you got what you got, get used to it”, which I believe is the average person’s point of view. Now I believe differently, but I didn’t take any action. What got me interested over the last few months or so, were several threads by married men regarding their sex lives and the effects of PE on them. Now, I’m not married, nor do I plan on getting married. But I am familiar with the stereotypical situation. So it was very exciting to read about the “before” (sex not very often, husband usually initiates it, wife sees it as a chore) and the “after” (much more often, wife sometimes/usually initiates it, wife much more excited than previously). It sounds like a dream come true, especially the part about vaginal orgasms happening often. A sexual partner being much more into sex than before can only be a good thing.
My biggest obstacle in the past about starting, was the fear of injuring my dick. Right now it is completely healthy and works perfectly. I’m willing to start small, and to go slowly. I’m a pretty patient person. Obviously I would start with the newbie routing, manual stretching and jelqing. After that, it seems like pumping makes the most sense to me. Clamping, extending, and hanging initially all sounded too scary to even consider. But the more I read about it, the more open-minded I become. So if you are in the position I am in right now (and obviously everyone was, at the beginning), and you found a routine that led to a bigger dick, without damaging it, I want to hear from you. I AM using the search function, but like it says, this place sprawls. There are 20 years worth of threads on here, and I have to admit, I am having a hard time finding my way around.
Another reason for my procrastination is that I am currently 7” BPEL and 5” EG. The length measurement I get by getting as aroused as I can, flattening out the curve, and jamming the ruler in there so hard I almost draw blood. Under these conditions I can actually get an extra 1/8th inch. As far as the girth, I initially used a twist tie that was 5” long, and it would meet and overlap very slightly, but I found a strip of paper worked better, since it didn’t dig into the skin. If I do it like that, I can get an extra 1/8th inch in girth. So basically I’m 7x5. I know that won’t impress anyone (on here, anyway), but it would be rare to meet a woman who would consider me “too small”. In other words, if I have to live with this size for the rest of my life, I’m fine with that. But why not try? My dick is like me, tall and thin. Actually I never worried about girth until I found this place. A little thicker might feel better for both my partner and myself. I took some pictures, but apparently I can’t post them here.
My goals are pretty modest, an inch or less in both length and girth. Actually I don’t much care about length gains, even a little would be fine. I don’t even want too much girth, since getting too thick to receive a blowjob, from the majority of women, would be a tragedy. I definitely don’t understand the guys on here who handwave that away with a “I never cared much for blowjobs, I want more PE!” or the guys who say “I’m 8x6.5 and I’ve never had a problem”. Huh?
That’s pretty much it. Part of writing this was just to get some stuff off my chest, since I can’t really talk about any of this to anyone. One of the things I like about this place is how supportive most people are (and how trolls are dealt with). I plan to begin sometime in the near future, as soon as I can figure out exactly how to get started. Thanks for listening.