Introduction

Hey Guys,

Just starting this thread for myself really, so I can hopefully look back in a year and see huge improvement in myself.. In more ways than this forum/site can offer.

I am one of those guys that is never happy - I’m good looking, reasonably well off and have a gorgeous little girl and a wife that loves me.. I guess the line that sums it all up for me is; “I’ve got an emptiness deep inside and it won’t let me go” {Neil Diamond - I guess not everyone on this forum appreciates the oldies ;0)} Anyway despite having a lot, I am deeply insecure.. I’m not tall enough, my dick isn’t big enough, I’m not confident enough.. My parents didn’t instill enough values in me - Basically like many here I imagine; I find reasons to dislike/disrespect/discredit myself for no good reason. I can step back and take a logical perspective on things but that means nothing unless I can truly believe it. I have managed to take a pretty great advantage in life and piss it away by giving myself premature ejaculation, some level of impotence and a crap social sweating problem!!

I’m 5.11 and have a very normal penis going by the site stats (circa 6*5.25 inches - haven’t fully measured)- I’m also likable and reasonably successful (getting more so I hope/think!) so I guess I need to just learn to be happier and more content. I’m not going to have my legs broken and stretched and even if I did - 6.1 wouldn’t be enough.. And if by some form of wizardry I could reach 6.3 - I would probably resent NBA players and pin my hopes on reaching 6.7. I have a load of shit I need to sort out.. All of it has to be done internally except one thing..

I mightn’t be the tallest or most successful or funniest in the room but fuck me I will have a larger dick! Its a stupid and most definitely unessential gift to myself but I think it will go a long way to giving myself a sense of superiority (not arrogance or anything nasty.. Maybe just a feeling of equality really) and hopefully with continued self improvement it will help me grow into the person I want to be.

This site is a part of my overall voyage to perfection (or even a sense of wholeness would suffice.. Getting very new-age and esoteric I know!) - I am on my own for a lot of this journey and happily so!. But in this case I welcome the support this community offers - already I feel this is a place where a warmth and understanding permeates.. I know there are friends out there in this community which I haven’t yet interacted with (and will certainly never meet) but I wish you all the best and I can’t wait to start sharing my gains with you all. So anyway that’s my introduction..

All the best

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Getting a bigger dick, a better job, more praise from other individuals, etc., won’t make you happy. You’ll get temporary happiness in the moment that it appears, but as with the nature of human beings, you’ll just adapt to your new circumstance and look for something more to desire again. That’s just the way it is.

Learn to bring happiness into everything that you do and you will always be happy.

Welcome aboard! You may find help for your insecurities. I doubt that a bigger dick is going to do it. You need to come to grips with the man in the mirror. Many here have a hard time with these issues. Read and join in the therapy sessions. Haha I never realised I’d get mental services here!

Thunder, you may be missing something here that could help pay the bills.

As a Psychotherapist I can tell you that physical things (height included) will not allow you happiness, satisfaction, peace or any other sense of well-being.

The work comes in disassociating from all the desires of things and focus on the self separate from those things.

We are who we are, not what we have.

Except the dick thing, that’s deeply spiritual.

In the two and a half years that I’ve been here learning to get a bigger dick I have to say my entire life has improved because of one simple thing; my dick is one inch longer.

I should write to my professional associations and announce that I’ve discovered a cure for depression, anxiety, dissociative fugue states, paranoia, latent hostility and psychosis.

And regarding your height issue, you could always move to the Philippines.

Hey Guys I agree with almost everything you have all mentioned - just to clarify I know my insecurities are mine to get over. Having a bigger penis is the only one I am willing to pander too - I guess I don’t like anyone having something on me.

Anyway my goal with this post was to set a marker for myself.

MetaMorpho, you have the same starting stats as me - great gains, hope I can achieve something close to that!

With determination, positive thinking, and a consistent routine you have a very good shot at it. Good luck.