Involuntary kegeling results in faster cumming. How to stop

I’d like to thank everybody who puts in time to answer these questions.. Thanks to Thunder’s I’ve gained half an inch nbpel :D . Anyways my problem is that after training the BC muscle I can’t shut it off. I involuntarily kegel during masturbation and it makes me cum much faster. How do I stop this? It makes it too difficult to hold back at the point of no return

Wow I was gonna post about the same topic I have the same problem as you man. What I do is before sex I try to kegel as much as possible and exhaust my BC muscle and I don’t know if it stops the flexing but it makes me last a hell of a lot longer than I normally do.