Is it possible to make any gains if you can't achieve an erection?
I’m going to have a lot of time on my hands and my dick still bothers me. Over the years its seem to have shrunk or something. I’d like to at least get it back to where it was before.
I have for sure measured 7.2 inches before, like 10-13 years ago, when I was 17-20 years old. I was also around 135lbs, I’m like 200lbs now. I’m 30 now, overweight, depressed, and very self conscious, none of which contributes to my size, I know. My mental health is something I am working on, but its not going to be fixed soon and will require a lot of therapy, and no, I’m in therapy because I’m so bothered about my dick size. I’m also really thick. Before I lost my job and sunk into depression and gained 50lbs over the last 6 months, I went on tinder for the first time ever. I hadn’t been with a girl in 4 years, and I slept with 3. All of them commented on my thickness, 2 of them saying it was the thickest they’d ever seen. 6.2” girth was the largest I measured, though I only ever measured once years ago. Awhile back I wasn’t even hard, just kinda chubbed, I measured my girth and it was in the high 5’s, confirming basically yeah, I can safely say I’m at least 6” girth still.
The problem is my erections are just wack. When I do get them, they vary wildly, and its tough to measure because the moment I do so, I lose the erection. I have ADHD so its hard to concentrate and “stay in it” if you know what I mean. My erections are thick, and feel pretty hard, but only measure maybe 5-6 inches. Sometimes its more than, like 6-6.5, but even that’s a bit rare now. Also, sometimes my glans doesn’t fully inflate, this would happen when I was younger too, sometimes I would be hard, and be decent size, but my head wouldn’t be completely filled with blood and bright red/pink, it would be just kinda skin colored and smaller than the rest of my dick.
Well, I’m in the worst depression of my life, there’s things in my situation I can’t change atm, and they’ll take time. This is something I can potentially do now. It might be worth noting that I’m also taking vyvanse atm, which will assist me immensely in losing weight, however it does reliably cause stim dick throughout my entire day, around 10-16 hours while its active in the system. I hyper focus and can masturbate literally for 4 hours straight, but there’s no blood flow, and I’m basically as flaccid as I can possibly be without standing out in the cold. It doesn’t matter what I look at or think about, it won’t get hard.
So, what have you guys got for me. Is there anything I can do to help increase sensitivity, erection quality when I do have them, length and girth, all the while not being able to get an erection? Or am I kinda screwed here.
