I stopped PE’ing full time well over 2-3 years ago and stopped altogether about 2 years ago and this was because I came to the realisation that I was at the average size that I felt I needed and also because I started getting into the stuff on the seduction community mostly david deangelo and Neil Strauss.
I soon realised that confidence was a big problem, and that this had to do with my insecurity about my penis size among other things to do with depression and ADD.
Now, I don’t think that the seduction community is 100% spot on at all, I just read alot of stuff and decided for myself which advice i’d take on board with my life.
I didn’t do any of the fancy stuff that they suggested but after reading the boog The Game, I found the general sense of confidence and flair in a personality and david deangelo’s general view about “cocky and funny” the real help in my sexual and love life.
I didn’t read it word for word and neither did i pay for the reading materials or anything from these authours at all, but I took a great deal of knowledge from what they wrote and all of a sudden it didnt matter about my dick so much as I realised that no matter how big it got, that there would always be this thing of “if only another 1/4 inch more) and such.
That it can become addictive and take over your life just as anything can, much like bodybuilding can or anything at all for that matter, even workers can become workaholics.
So I was becoming PEaholic in a sense.
I just want to say that it was only after I stopped PEing that I lost my virginity at age 20, after reading all those numerous articles by david deangelo and neill strauss and by sifting through to find the core of the confidence that made me go from fucking nobody to having 5 girls on the go at once!
Seriously that was fun, but ironically by regarding women as less powerfull in a way made me more confident around them and by cheating and whatnot I got respect from my mates (‘buddies’ in american speak) and was the happiest that i have ever been in my life at that time.
Now I don’t know if people here on thunders have the same reasons that I did for getting into PE, as I believe that some are happily in a relationship and just want to get bigger for their girl, but it must affect the confidence of a man in a negative way to feel that one’s dick is not the size that is needed in order to please a woman.
That has to be one of the greatest if not the greatest knocks to a man’s confidence that there is in life!
Cas