Jelqing without porn

Hi all,

I’m trying to get off porn because it’s seriously affecting my EQ when I really need my dick to give it’s 100% (I.e. When my girlfriend is here). Also, my dick has been seriously desensitised. However, when I jelq, if I don’t have a porno playing, I lose my erection really quickly.

I did a search for “porn detox” and the only real suggestion I got from glancing through the threads was “you need to learn how” which doesn’t really help because there’s no further explanation how I can do that. Also, alot of the threads are either exclusively about porn detox or jelqing. If I do go on a detox, which is another problem altogether, then I’ll have to stop doing my PE or just limiting it to stretching and I don’t really wanna do that.

So does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do? Personal experiences or something?

Take care of the porn problem first. Then worry about your PE.

Thunder is good, Thunder is wise. Cut the porn out for a while and I think you’ll find that your imagination will do just fine.

Hmm ok then.

Thanks guys :)

I have exactly the same problem here harpoon, I have even notice that masturbating doesn’t help my PE, it actually makes as if I don’t PE at all (does any one else has this problem?) but yeah the only way is to stop watching porn and we are the only ones who can stop it, there is no other way. Good luck with the detox.

Thanks for the words of encouragement. Actually I’ve kinda noticed that problem too. I haven’t gained anything even though I’ve been PEing for around 6 weeks. Hopefully this’ll be a way to kill two birds with one stone.