Ed911
It is essential that you lose fat and not muscle. As has been mentioned before, the goal weight to lose per week is no more than 3-4 lbs. I bodybuild and get angry at myself if I lose more than this. Muscle takes alot of work to gain, you don’t want to lose it because of improper dieting or uncontrolled enthusiasm. The less muscle you keep after the diet the easier you will gain back the fat, and the harder it will be to lose.
Cardio is useful in moderation. Intensive cardio will cause you to cannibalize your muscles for fuel. I only do 10 mins of light cardio as warm up before moving onto the weights. My heart rate is elevated constantly from the weight lifting. The session lasts 45 mins. It is also not possible to build muscle on a caloric deficient diet. So I can’t tell you to try to build muscle while dieting. The ultimate goal you can achieve while dieting is to keep all your muscle. It is almost guaranteed that you WILL lose some (only steroids have been shown to build muscle while dieting), the goal is to minimize the loss as much as possible. If you keep the muscle you will gain back weight very slowly unless you binge. If you don’t over do your dieting, you won’t feel the need to binge.
Cardio advocators might also argue that weight lifting tears down muscle and on a caloric deficient diet the body won’t rebuild it effectively. The argument is that you will lose muscle because the weight lifting is destroying it. I choose to supplement with Vitamin C and protein saturation of the system to combat this. As well as get lots of rest.
Studies have shown that a mix of cardio and weight training resulted in the most fat loss with the least amount of muscle loss compared to cardio only or weight training only. The body converts bodyfat to usable energy at a slow rate, cardio allows you to use energy faster than this process. You must know the line.
The Atkins diet gets a bad rap because the people who go on it do not choose the correct source for their protein. They assume fatty steaks, fastfoods without the bun, bacon etc is fine. What they need to be consuming is skinless chicken, tuna, egg whites, nuts, protein shakes etc to truly be on the protein diet. Avoid animal fats. Milkfat currently is being debated upon. Research is showing that it does not act like other animal fats and cause arterial clotting.
I personally would suggest you lift moderate weights with a small cardio warmup, eat a balanced diet and get all of the essential vitamins while staying in a caloric deficit. Do not work out a body part more than once a week. Do extensive cardio workouts on days you don’t liftweights. Most cardio workouts work out the legs(find an elliptical machine as they put the least pressure on your knees). Thats great and all but don’t you want an upper body to match? :) Learn how to take your pulse and learn what zone you should be in. Rests between sets is important. You want to work the muscle and not train the catabolic process. Suggested 3 day weights, 2 days cardio 2 days rest.
Since you are intending to lose 44 lbs (although you don’t even know your bodyfat level apparently) plan on being on the diet for at 11-14.5 weeks. That is if you have the correct work out and diet to lose 3-4 lbs a week. Few people make it past 3 weeks even when losing the weight succesfully. WILLPOWER is what you will need the most of.
Fatpad apparently isn’t uniform for everyone, people with the same level of bodyfat have different levels of pubic fatpad. I’ll wish for the best and say you will end up with .5 inches of fatpad.
PE seems to benefit more on a caloric deficient diet. I made my greatest gains then, but others have been reporting that too. I read up on it somewhere in this forum. I am going back on my cutting phase soon, if you want some friendly motivational competition? :p
Losing weight isn’t difficult. Keeping the weight off is the biggest problem of the majority of dieters. Losing weight the correct way is what everyone should want to do (few know how). It takes knowledge and willpower. I have my diets planned on paper down to the number of grams of fat,protein,carbs I need. I know exactly how many calories I am consuming daily, in each meal and when I need to eat. I find that I have to force myself to eat, rather than want to eat. I do 5-6 meals a day, 1 every 4 hours.
If you live in the states you have no excuse for not being able to plan your diet. The USA has nutritional labels on nearly every food product. The Internet gives you access to so many resources. Have you ever wondered how you would try to diet if these weren’t available? You’d have to measure and weigh everything and look up their values in a book!
I’m sorry to hear about your job and fiancee. Playing computer games is a great hobby of mine. It’s not a bad thing. This is the best time to start losing bodyfat. You should be ready for the pool/beach in spring and summer! Remember, WILLPOWER!!!