Loss Of Sexual Desire

I’ve been doing PE now for about 13 weeks. I started out with the newbie routine for the first 8 weeks and then switched to hanging for the last 4-5 weeks. I say some nice progress from the newbie routine but am most interested in length currently so after reading a lot on the forums I decided to hang. I started hanging at 3lbs. I have added a pound a week since and have had no issues with pain or anything like that.

My issue I have had is that I had a fantastic sex drive the entire time I’ve been doing PE until last week. It’s as if my desire just completely disappeared. To be completely transparent, my wife and I had sex 4 nights in a row as a bit of an experiment. That is when I really noticed the sex drive disappear, but I’m not sure if that is the cause, or if PE is the cause. I typically want sex about every other day, so the fact that I haven’t been interested for more than a week now seems like something is wrong.

Does anyone have any opinions or suggestions? I’d really like to get my desire back, because what’s the point of a big dick if you don’t want to use it?

PE does not lead to lack of desire if conducted properly. Overtraining can cause the penis to be ‘tired’ and sometimes an inability to get erect, which will go away when your penis has rested. Similarly, sex 4 nights in a row, or twice as much as your body is accustomed to, can cause a temporary loss of desire as your body recovers from lots of sex. Give it a few days rest and your drive will be back to normal.

Thanks for the reply. It’s just been strange to have such low desire all of a sudden.

Keep us posted please.

Your body releases certain hormones when you have sex that create a temporary decrease in libido.. Essentially your body saying alright man, good work, mission accomplished. Sounds like you had an accumulation of those hormones.

Banging 4 days in a row could easily burn plenty of people out. There could be many other factors at play ie: sleep, work, stress, etc. Honestly, don’t worry. Your libido will bounce back. Just abstain for a couple days. Moving forward, you may want to stick closer to something like every other day. That’s about perfect for me.

32quarters, multiple days of sex on others of us, raises our desire and sexual energy. So it depends upon the man.

Which has no application to this situation.

You’re right. I’m curious if the member is masturbating after his PE sessions? Perhaps take a week off of PE to take his mind off of his member?

With your foray into PE has your use of porn increased?

Just had a chance to jump back on and see some responses. Thanks for all the feedback. Just to update on a few questions people asked/mentioned.

I typically do not masturbate after PE session, and really don’t masturbate often for that matter.

My porn usage may have increased a little bit as I’ve gotten into PE, but not much. I also have never had issues with porn use and it’s effects on my libido.

As far as an update, the libido is coming back. Still not as high as it was previously, but I took a few days off PE and just let everything settle. I think I’m moving in the right direction now.