Maintaining Erection Question

03-30-2021, 12:56 AM

KrustyRusty

Maintaining Erection Question

I’m sure there’s got to be some category for this question but I couldn’t find it.

Is difficulty maintaining an erection something that comes with being older, not in the sense of health issue so to speak but having less concentration maybe?

So when I am hard I’m fine there’s not an issue anymore now that I’ve kicked back with cardio workout and I think I’m feeling less depressed. But I would describe it as something like ADD for D.
So the first thing to bring it on would be like getting distracted or thinking about something else on accident and then losing some erection. It could be something like it’s been on my mind, or one of the kids knocking on doors trying to find us.
The second is after she orgasms a couple times she’s like oh my God get out I need a break it’s too much. Which is a good sign.. But that’s usually one of the times that it just starts to deflate as soon as I stop being in her.

It wasn’t always like that. It used to be that I could go wash it off a little get a drink come back unchanged.

I’m curious if this is something that develops normal with guys as they get older? Does it maybe have more to do with a medical issue? Does having 36 years of crap in your head just plug up your concentration process? Married sex for 10 years?

02-27-21 STARTING: BPEL: 5.9in, EG: 5.5in

Goal: BPEL: 7.5, EG 5.5 uniform.

03-30-2021, 01:02 AM

Titleist

Stressors that come with life.

Started 7.75x5.75

Currently: 9.75bpX6.75eg My Picture Thread

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03-30-2021, 02:15 PM

Lookinforgirth

I wish I had the true answer. In my opinion though, unfortunately I think it’s part of getting older.

Start 8/15/18-BPEL-6.75” MEG-4.625”

2/17/20-BPEL-7.125” MEG-5”

Goal- 8”x5.5”

03-30-2021, 08:28 PM

Coacher25

Distractions

Originally Posted by KrustyRusty

I’m sure there’s got to be some category for this question but I couldn’t find it.
Is difficulty maintaining an erection something that comes with being older, not in the sense of health issue so to speak but having less concentration maybe?
So when I am hard I’m fine there’s not an issue anymore now that I’ve kicked back with cardio workout and I think I’m feeling less depressed. But I would describe it as something like ADD for D.
So the first thing to bring it on would be like getting distracted or thinking about something else on accident and then losing some erection. It could be something like it’s been on my mind, or one of the kids knocking on doors trying to find us.
The second is after she orgasms a couple times she’s like oh my God get out I need a break it’s too much. Which is a good sign.. But that’s usually one of the times that it just starts to deflate as soon as I stop being in her.
It wasn’t always like that. It used to be that I could go wash it off a little get a drink come back unchanged.
I’m curious if this is something that develops normal with guys as they get older? Does it maybe have more to do with a medical issue? Does having 36 years of crap in your head just plug up your concentration process? Married sex for 10 years?

Hi Krusty,

I think it’s a combination. I still get rock hard but life throws curveballs at you. Had my first moment like this a couple of months ago. I’ve been married over 16 years and have two little ones that love to come bang on the bedroom door at the worst times. I’m almost 38 and this was the first time I couldn’t rally after the distraction. I wouldn’t overthink it.

Start 11/12/2020: BPEL-6.5”; MSEG-4.5”

Current 8/10/2021: BPEL-7”; MSEG-4.825”; BPFSL 7.75”

Goal: BPEL 7.5”; MSEG 5.5”

03-30-2021, 08:53 PM

5.5Squared

Krusty - forget about it. Think of it as a 3 point shot that rimmed out. Forget it and take the next shot. Stressing about it can result in performance anxiety. We’re all human.

BPEL: 5.5" --> 7.9" ; BPFSL: ~5.6" --> 8.5"

Progress log summary: Hanging with FIRe

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05-09-2021, 05:59 PM

oldguypenewb

Originally Posted by KrustyRusty

I’m sure there’s got to be some category for this question but I couldn’t find it.
Is difficulty maintaining an erection something that comes with being older, not in the sense of health issue so to speak but having less concentration maybe?
So when I am hard I’m fine there’s not an issue anymore now that I’ve kicked back with cardio workout and I think I’m feeling less depressed. But I would describe it as something like ADD for D.
So the first thing to bring it on would be like getting distracted or thinking about something else on accident and then losing some erection. It could be something like it’s been on my mind, or one of the kids knocking on doors trying to find us.
The second is after she orgasms a couple times she’s like oh my God get out I need a break it’s too much. Which is a good sign.. But that’s usually one of the times that it just starts to deflate as soon as I stop being in her.
It wasn’t always like that. It used to be that I could go wash it off a little get a drink come back unchanged.
I’m curious if this is something that develops normal with guys as they get older? Does it maybe have more to do with a medical issue? Does having 36 years of crap in your head just plug up your concentration process? Married sex for 10 years?

It’s an age thing all right, I’m late 50s and I have to watch what I’m doing. I think in my case it was vascular issues and to address it I started doing daily cardio and l-citrulline. This gave me some decent gains from EQ alone which were both unintended and welcomed at the same time. This prompted me to explore other avenues to improve myself, size ways. My wife is now done with menopause and her libido is back to where it was in the 1st few years of our marriage.

Grumpy old bastard