Masturbation is bad

Masturbation is bad. Let me say that this does not mean that I believe masturbation is morally wrong. Experience has taught me that I have wasted a lot of potential by masturbating. If you don’t believe me, try to stop for a week or two. You’ll notice that you’ll be more attentive to your enviroment, socially adept, confident, and women will find you more attractive. I plan to stop masturbating permanently. I can’t prove it with objective data, but I believe that abstinence cures depression. I stopped playing with myself for over twenty days and felt like superman. Then, I caved in one night and the next day I felt like shit. I had no energy and people seemed to dislike me more than usual. I tried to abstain again and made it 11 days. It has taken me three days to recover. I love testosterone buzz. It is hard to go to sleep at night, but in the morning you are up—and so is your unit. You are listening to someone who masturbated almost everyday since he was 14. It is a destructive addiction. It was harder for me to quit cigarettes than it is for me to stop playing with myself.

Any thoughts?

If I go for more than about 10 days without ejaculating I am almost gauranteed to have a nocturnal emission. Good luck, I find my PE workouts greatly benefiet from not masturbating in the same day as well, but for some reason, sex doesn’t seem to hinder my workouts. Perhaps it’s partially a mental thing for me.

Masturbation is healthy for you, you are less likely to have prostate issues later on in life with frequent ejaculation, and considering we can’t always have sex with a women, masturbation is a necessity.

That’s all a bunch of sour grapes, oh darn I’m going to have to quit, oh no!

I have to agree with Hardbody on this one.

I agree with most of the points that you make but how do you come to the conclusion that women will find you more attractive because you don’t masturbate? That’s like saying they have some sort of jerk-off detector that can tell if a guy does it or not.

I know for a fact that with all the time I’ve spent watching internet porn and masturbating in my life up to this point I probably could have learned 5 new languages or gotten a PhD. I’m hoping the addiction ends when I can no longer maintain an erection. If not it will be very pathetic furiously and fruitlessly spanking a flaccid old wang.

I stopped masturbating two days ago and I grew 3” taller - take or leave it.

PS: I became blond, also.

I don’t know if I agree that women are more attracted to me when I don’t wank, but again my personal experience is that my PE workouts, and sex benefit from not smacking it 2 times a day. But thats just my experience, and like the art of PE itself everyone is different.

I get a blue ballsy feeling rather easily if I don’t “crank one out” with some frequency. Plus it’s hard as hell to sleep when you get that “horny buzz” that usually comes when it’s been a few days. But I agree that 2 or 3 times a day etc is a little draining (time and energy). I haven’t been doing that lately since I’m trying to teach myself to last longer, and now most of my “sessions” doesn’t end with ejaculation at all. It’s actually surprisingly easy to go for 30 minutes and then just stop. I still feel the need to ejaculate every 3 or 4 days, though.

I’m going to have to stop masturbating, boo hoo hoo hoo, wah!

I’d venture to say that suddenly feeling great about yourself after 20 days of not doing it is more of a feeling of guilt relieved rather than the true product of foregoing masturbation. I’ve beaten off twice in one day and still felt accomplished, socially functional and good about my self.

It can be draining sometimes, but taking a minute to yourself to just release the tension on your loins can be either good stress relief or just fun. As it’s not hurting your PE if done at a certain time, what’s the point. Everything in moderation, as they say.

I can relate to what Walter is saying. Masturbating everyday inflicts a massive blow to my confidence and self esteem not to mention my energy and enthusiasm levels. Lately I’ve started to dislike masturbating and even the orgasms from them don’t feel as good they used to.

I feel like shit when I don’t masturbate. Sometimes (like when I break up with a girlfriend), I’ll be feeling down and won’t masturbate for a week or two, and I feel like complete shit the whole time. But for some reason, as soon as I finally masturbate, I feel better.

Sounds weird, but I wouldn’t give it up. Sometimes I do it when I don’t even feel like it because I know I’ll feel good afterwards.

I actually have a little bit of experience on this topic. I went a complete month, a whole damn month without masturbating until ejaculation. This is what I found out. Towards the end of this month I actually found it harder to get hard erections. It was as if my body was saying, “You have teased me enough, if I dont get to blow my load than I am not going to get up for you for no reason!” This was on a resting day. So I fired up some porn went and it and FINALLY relieved myself. My god what a feeling. I could get myself aroused 30 seconds again after I blew that load!

At first I thought that not masturbating was helping me gain, but after so long I think my body rejected the idea of no masturbation.

So to the OP: try and go for a month or longer without relieving yourself, tell me how you feel!