Right,
All women do not want to keep your ego down, there are ones who want it UP, as the time your with them, you represent them.
I was reading of a Marie-Antoinette, a mistress to a Prince back in the 1300’s. She loved the dramatic, and her affair partners would indefinately get sucked into her drama. Her first lover married her and put her into power, he was gaining dissention through the entire way until he was pushed out of office.
A flair for the negative, she found another rich lover. She spent his money until no end, he gained negative dissention as her drama injected through him attacked all of his relationships, and he lost support. He ended up poor.
She had three other affair partners who suffered a similar fate.
Her main characteristics where said to be her tenacity, and she was headstrong, injecting her drama and views into her suitors.
By the 3rd partner, one should have realized the outcomes of this dame’s games.
So I’m going to say, there are women who inject positive into their partners - or mostly positive, and there are women who inject negative into their partners - or mostly negative. Knowing the history of that individual helps.
And by the way - 7.5 is not small at all, it is between medium and big under most peoples standard. If the women know that they are calling you “small”, then the rest will call you small.