My thoughts on girth.

My recent PE efforts have mostly been aimed at girth. I am relatively happy with my length, 7”+ BPEL, but my girth looks small to me. With some gains I am now, with my best erection, at 4.5” below the glans, 4.75” at mid shaft and 5.375” at the base. As my girth has increased a little over 1/4” as an average of the three measurements I have been pleased with my gains.

I was sitting at my desk thinking about this the other day and started measuring things in my desk drawers to compare. A Tylenol bottle had a circumference of 4.625”, slightly larger than the smallest part of my penis. A bottle of contact lens solution has a circumference of 5.625”, somewhat larger than the largest part of my penis but both these measurements are similar if not a little smaller than the girth I get when clamped.

Oral sex is to me the holy grail. I absolutely love the feel and the visual stimulation. Though after many years of marriage I don’t get much anymore and the sessions are not very long before my wife complains of a tired jaw.

My thought is this: I don’t think I would be very comfortable with that Tylenol bottle in my mouth for very long, certainly not with the lens solution bottle and I imagine my wife, who is a tiny woman, will probably feel the same way. So perhaps my PE goals will in fact hurt my sex life!

I think there is a big difference in the perceived size of a hard solid object compared to the flexibility of an erect penis. I don’t think being larger will make your sex life any less fun. It’s kind of like a diamond. The bigger the better. :)

Hi Grower - when does your wife normally suck your cock? At what stage in your love making? I’ve found that my penis recieves the best, most enthusiastic attention from my partner when she is at her highest arousal levels during our love making - which is usually toward the end of the session.

Have her alternate a healthy amount of hand action, licking, playing with your balls, etc instead of just leaving it in her mouth the whole time. That should allow her to take breaks and not get that tired jaw syndrome. My mid shaft girth is 5.5”, I’m dating a tiny girl, and she never has problems with her jaw because of this. Well she also does it every day (after two years!) so her jaw is probably conditioned for it. But it wasn’t always..

Since I love oral sex so much I had to “train” a lot of girls when I was younger since all of them complained about the whole jaw thing. They just have to get over thinking that your penis has to be in their mouth the whole time.

On the other hand, some girls just flat out don’t like to do it. She may only be doing it because she loves you but uses the jaw thing to stop earlier than she would if she still had to chase you like when you were single. Talk to her about trying the breaks, how much you love it, and see if it changes.

Thanks for the responses.

Saul, usually I receive oral from my wife as part of foreplay, perhaps you are right that she may be more into it if it were to happen later in the act. I find it interesting with my wife that she is in more of a hurry than other women I have been with to get to penetration, a little bit of foreplay is all she wants. She seems to get more pleasure from this than from receiving oral or any other part of the whole sex package.

Kwon47, if you are getting a blowjob everyday after 2 years you are truly a lucky man, LOL. You may be right that my wife only performs oral because she knows how much I like it but I certainly don’t have to pressure her to do it and early in our relationship she was surprised to hear from me that some women don’t enjoy doing it.

You probably have a good shot there. Some even like it more because they’re tasting themselves while they’re doing it.