Need Some Support

Just my two cents, but sex attaches people. I think you’d be better off waiting until you’re ready for commitment. If FWB stresses you out, why mess with it? (I totally get that we have two heads competing for control.)

Alison should learn a little digression. There’s a way to tell it like it is, without being hurtful to others. Unknowingly she created self doubt in your mind… Remember that it’s only the opinion of one person.

Just a little update guys Alison just told me how that guy she met at a New Year’s Eve party called and asked to take her out next weekend.

Now again, I’ve been pretty honest with her saying I don’t want more and she even kind of knows that I wish things were friends like before. I told her she’d be happier actually having a bf that can be there for her. I guess she likes me and really enjoys the sex but I do wish it was simpler. And like you mentioned above, sometimes a guy’s two heads want different things lol

But she said, he asked to take me out next weekend and then she typed ok with a laughing face. I said oh he did, kind of in an excited way lol
Again she knows how I feel about everything and how I’ll support her when she finds a guy, although sometimes she doesn’t like hearing that.

So of course a little ego kicked in for me because she’s been showing me attention in that way but I need to get beyond that and actually hope this guy is a good guy that can maybe lead to something. So it’s a strange situation and sex doesn’t help lol why does it have to be so good and wild and kinky? Literally willing to do anything and try anything I desire! Dang! Lol

So I’m going to see how she responds to my reaction- maybe she’s hoping for me to show jealousy but I will control myself to not show it I hope. Again it’s not based on feeling more for her, it would just be an ego thing about a natural like being replaced. It’s like when your friend gets a new friend and starts paying them attention and sometimes you can feel a little jealousy. I’ll keep you guys updated!

It’s beginning to seem like an all too familiar situation. It’s funny- yesterday I was thinking about this thread regarding a girl I know from work. Haha, I almost asked her if she has heard of thunders thinking she might b Allison. Thanks for the update bud.