To wbp, Glenn and possibly eid…I can relate and sympathize 100% with you guys…I’m sitting at 4.25” npel though I have respectable girth…I’m 30yrs old, haven’t had sex in 3 years due to insecurity…turned down many, many chances…I actually think now because I don’t pursue women aggresively (from not having the confidence to get women into bed) they want me more and I’m constantly having to find an excuse (ie get drunk and pass out on the ride home form the bar) to avoid it…what kills me most is that I’m pretty decent looking and women do tend to like me, life has been pretty lonely…and Glenn, you’re comment about God saving you from std’s thats what I used to think but now, mainly because I’m not well-endowed, I stopped beleiving in God altogether…the depression has led to bad lifestyle choices (read substance abuse) which are now hurting all aspects of my life…I’ve pretty much lost all confidence in myself and lack optimism but since finding this site
(thanks Thunder and everyone else invloved) I have a somewhat renewed sense of hope (if this was a pay-site I wouldn’t believe in pe)…well I’ve just begun but I do know it’s time to stop feeling sorry for myself and get on with life pe right now is my light at the end of the proverbial tunnel…oh, though I haven’t been at this long enough but rather based on other members succes, I do finally believe in the old saying “anything is possible”…best of luck to you all.