New here, some special circumstances.

I’ve always been hampered socially/etc/by knowing I have a small penis and being unwilling to even try to get into a relationship, you all know the story there, I’m sure you’ve heard it a thousand times.

Anyway, I couldn’t sign up for the forums last night, but I did take my measurements. What I found was a little surprising..

Erect Non-Bone Pressed Length: 4.90”
Erect girth (measured distance around the middle of my penis): 5.20”

Now, the length is no surprise, I knew that was tiny. Yet, the girth seems to be just fine, even slightly above average according to that Kinsey test thing.

What I’m trying to say is that I don’t want to gain a lot of extra girth. I notice a lot of the guys here are going for 8x6 monster penises, but I would ideally want to stop at around 6.5x5.5. Is there any way I should modify the newbie routine to give increased focus on length, and less so on girth (not to the point I -lose- girth, but so it doesn’t turn into an un-usable telephone pole girth on the way to 6.5” length)?

In addition, I have some special circumstances regarding my home situation. I’m 19 years old, I live at home with my parents. They are fundamentalist Christians who are still having a tough time coping with me quitting churchgoing, and they firmly believe in the ‘sex is for marriage, and even in marriage it’s only for popping out kids’ dogma. In other words, if they ever found out I was doing something like this, I would be ruined. This basically means that anything I would have to purchase is out of the question, since they regularly look over my credit reports.

Anyway, that’s about it. Nice to meet you all, and I’m glad I found this site now while I’m still young. Any advice I could get I would greatly appreciate.

You’re 19, and your parents are looking over your credit reports? What the hell business of theirs is your credit report?

Hey, at least they didn’t throw you out for quitting church.

GM

Yes. Don’t ask, it’s rather hellish. I make the best of my situation, though, and in a couple years I’ll hopefully have enough money to get a decent apartment.

Do a lot of stretching and jelq at about 40-50% hardness to encourage length gains.

You’d better clear your history and cookies in case your parents look through it and find that you were on this site ;)

Fou-Lu, I’m here for pretty much the same thing. I don’t really want any increase in girth to begin with, i’m about 5” in that department and 5.25 in length.

I’m just over 2 months into the newbie routine and about to go 5 days on 2 days off. If you’re new to this then obviously take more rest days as laid out in the newbie routine thread.

I didn’t notice any gains after the first month which didn’t surprise me, but for the last 2 weeks I’ve been increasing my stretch routine and jelqing at a lower erection level (35% - 50%).

I stretch in the bath or shower - constant source of heat and total privacy.

I also found that doing light stretching for 20 minutes in the morning, then jelqing in the evening helped things loads. I think I’ve gained 0.25” in the last 2 weeks from that.

My advice is follow the newbie routine, and once you’ve conditioned yourself and finished with the newbie routine, add more stretches and longer stretches and start kegel routines.

The most important thing to remember is to be patient.

Use the advanced search feature to find a whole bucket load of threads on length routines.

Good luck.

- Bromman.

Well, good luck with that. In my experience, not every church agrees with the fundamentalist doctrines , and you might make your transition easier if you seek out people that have gone through the same situations. Don’t try to go too far in the other direction, though, ‘cause that would be disastrous also.

Personally, I think that the quote from Dobson is taken out of context, and that he is more sophisticated than that, but the bottom line is that some parents just do not understand that their children are radically different than they are personality-wise, and they often try to ram their agendas down their throat and are incapable of celebrating the individuality of their child. Religious issues aside, many people go through, and are going through this same situation.

GM

I appreciate the concern, but my views on religion have been debated plenty enough on forums dedicated to that sort of thing. I’d rather they not become an issue on this forum, but rest assured that I hold no grudges against religious people as a whole.

I’m going to start my first Newbie Routine tonight in a few hours.

From what I can tell, I should do the wet jelq at low erection levels in my situation, right? The grip should also focus on the -sides- of the penis rather than the top, from what I read in a random topic here about becoming ‘desensitized’, is this also correct?

I’m sorry to ask about Kegels, but I’ve been looking over this site for ages and it seems too simple. When I want to, I can flex my penis upward a bit. I’m pretty sure that’s the same muscle I use to stop peeing midstream, as the tutorial said. Flexing that and holding it up is what is meant by a ‘kegel’, right?

Anyway, wish me luck. I appreciate the help.

Yes, we have enough of that here already. You’re displaying a good amount of maturity and it’s appreciated.

If you are intact (uncut) or have enough loose skin you don’t even need lube. If you’re circumcised you may need lube to jelq. Either way will work.

You can grip with the “OK” (complete circle) grip or use just the fingertips of both hands on each side. The erection level should be 50-75%. Being less erect than that will not provide enough blood to move during the jelq stroke to put pressure on the erectile chambers in excess of a normal erection pressure, which is the point. You have to have enough blood available to do the jelq correctly.

Avoiding pressure on the dorsal (top) side of the penis will help prevent injury to the major nerves there which might affect sensitivity.

That’s correct. It is a very simple exercise, but doing about 100 every other day will help get harder erections (not that a 19 year old should have that problem) and, with practice, can help in developing the ability to have multiple orgasms without ejaculation. That trick, which requires lots of time and experience, isn’t anything to try to develop now. Kegels will not make your dick bigger. They’re just an adjunct which aids in overall penis health.

Thanks a bunch, westla. I’ll be giving it a try tonight in the shower.

Just did my first routine.

Everything went well, except I had to pass on the jelqing XD. I never thought much of the wild forest growing down there (because hell if I’ve ever had a girlfriend to worry about seeing it), but yeah.the hair kept getting pulled and snapped with the jelqing. Guess my rainforest and shaver are going to be getting a heartfelt meeting before tomorrow’s routine.

Doing it in the shower seems like a fine way to hide it. I have long hair, so if they ask questions I can just say that I’m taking extra good care of my hair.

Thanks, all. I’ll be sure to keep a log of my progress.

Even if you don’t do PE and never come back to this site learn that one thing because your life would suck if they followed your internet trail.

Here’s another thread about covert PE: Covert PE

You can stretch in bed too. Lie on your back with your knees up and do a manual BTC. Or do the variation of the BTC stretch that Chicken Choker describes here and I take way too long to describe here.

It’s hard to do a formal warm up in bed without a heat source, but you can come close by massaging your package for a minute or two, just to get things loosened up.