NEW Member I need help guys please

Hey guys I’m new to this forum I’ve been doing research for days and I finally found this forum here I expect that people don’t mock at me because it’s a serious question and I’m truly looking for giving my girl a good sexual life, all that I want is to make her happier..

I don’t know if this forum is the correct place to discuss about all this because it’s focused more on PE exercises and stuff like that but I’ll have to explain all my situation here .. I’m 24 years old, I’m 176cm height, extremely overweight (obese) 120kg, and I always struggled to produce the right amounts of testosterone during my teenagerhood and still struggling but I never have the courage to talk to my dad about my penis problem so I let the problem goes and goes and maybe because of that I may digged my own grave..

Now that I’m more mature and don’t have a lot of problem of talking about it I decided to go to an Endocrino and discuss it and we identified that I have this problem of extremely low Testosterone and looking back to past exams he said that maybe it’s the cause to my under developed penis..

I’ve been doing a lot, (REALLY A LOT), of research and I found that maybe an hormone therapy combining Testosterone, Chorionic Gonadotropin, Growth Hormone and Topical DHT Gel I could develope my penis into a more “decent” size .. Remember that I’m extremely fat and I’m already doing a diet and exercising 45 minutes / day my plan is to the end of 2019 weight 65kg .. I will do everything for my girl she always supported me even doe I’m obese with a small pennis ..

I want to ally 3 things together: Hormone Therapy + Heavy Loss Weight (~55kg) + Stretch Exercises (I really want to go further on that I’m willing to wear how many hours I need an extender, do any exercises, use pumps no matter what)

At moment my measures are (pulling the fat pubic at maximum that I can while taking measure):
Flacid: 7cm
Erect: 11cm
Girth: 10.5cm - 11cm (when 100% erect)
(Flacid pictures: it’s even smaller when I can’t retract all the pubic fat and if I don’t retract at all it almost disappears only showing a part of head)

But it doesn’t look like a developed cock at all I don’t know if there’s anything to do with the fact that I’m extremely obese but anyway guys I’m looking for advice, experiences and what to expect with all of that,

In the end all I want is to be the best that I can be for her I’m willing to do cirurgical procedures if needed like Lipo of Pubic Fat but I didn’t liked at all the Penis Lenght surgeries I wanted to know more about Morganstern Tissue procedure but I didn’t found any real relates about that ..

At that point I’m all open to suggest, and mainly how to start the PE Exercises and I’ve been reading a lot but couldn’t reach any conclusions on what gear should I get for PE (extenders, vacuum pumps etc.)

Hi, 24. And welcome.

It’s great that you want to improve yourself; ;less so that it’s for someone else’s benefit rather than your own, but still better than being stagnant.

First and foremost, you should focus on your general health. Don’t set unrealistic goals for yourself. It’s highly unlikely that you’ll go from 120kg to 65kg in 13 months without undergoing weight loss surgery. Your whole body is used to you being one weight, so it’s hard to get rid of it.

Weight loss surgery might even be a reasonable consideration, depending on the particulars of your individual case. But that’s beyond the scope of our discussion, here.

You describe a small penis. It’s not too small to have successful intercourse, including providing pleasure to your partner, but it is certainly well below the 50th percentile.
You may have some success with mechanical PE as well as the hormonal regimen you are discussing. It’s best that you discuss it with your doctors[s].

A far as providing pleasure to your “girl”, it’s important to remember that the primary sexual organ isn’t located between her legs, but between her ears. For females especially, sexuality is a mental/emotional state.
If you become hyperfocused on your penis, she might actually get tuned off.
Having said that, the epicenter of physical stimulation in females is the clitoris, not the vagina. The clitoris does extend inside the pelvis and around the vagina, but it’s most easily stimulated from direct contact at the clitoral glans.
If you haven’t done so already, you really need to discuss all of this with her.

Best of luck.

Take it one step at a time, it wont hurt to do some light PE but you need to reduce your bodyfat if you’re not happy with it, your penis will look bigger every kg you drop abd your confidence will grow, i know you said you would like to please your girlfriend but look at the process as improving yourself work your arms, abs, legs, penis etc and work it into a routine of becoming a better you, good luck and i hope you get what you want!

I’d say worry more about losing weight.

Hey guys thanks so much for the answers

@ Ukmanuk that bothers me a lot, we already discussed it together and for her a 13cm pennis would be enough to have a good sexual life, the thing I can barely hit 11cm when full erect and retracting fat pubic, should I expect at least some real gain from losing weight ? I’m really lost here I just want to have 1-2cm more in girth and 2cm in lenght and I should be fine to please her she’s a small girl we’re not americans so the standarts here are a little bit different she’s 155cm 55kg .. We’re both mixed asians / brazilians

@ Phil210 I’m doing it believe or not I’ll do it I’ll give my everything to do it if that can allow me a better sexual life with her I’m down too, we’re planning to live together next year

@ Miguel Coto I know I’m doing it already the last time I weighted I was 120kg but now I’m probabily around 115kg already I’m doing a really intense diet and doctor said it’ll be easier to lose weight when my testosterone levels get back into line :) my focus is to be 65kg with no pubic fat..

Hey guys I read the Noob Guide to PE but I wanted to know from users what is indicated to start with wich extender, wich pump everything is valid here

Diet diet diet Big Fella. Eat Brazilian good stuff, including your lovely lady. Good work on the exercise. Keep it up mate. I would suggest you lose the weight and then focus on your cock, while keeping that special girl as happy as you can. Sounds like she loves you !

I think your amazing an inspiration to all of us. The fact that u can talk about your issues and are trying to fix them is awesome. Once you start dropping weight and u will your penis will actually look bigger your fad pad will shrink and there for it will be longer. But start with lite stretching and grab a penis pump.

Então você deveria ter pedido logo naquela época uma terapia hormonal para regular seu sistema endócrino.

Você terá de começar a fazer exercícios pesados na academia e montar uma dieta em déficit calórico para perder peso antes de tentar algo pesado em exercícios no pênis devido a gordura na região pubiana ser muito grande não consigo imaginar como vc poderia fazer exercícios fundamentais como Jelq ou esticamentos A ou V, se eu puder falar um exercício bom para vc fazer por enquanto que sua gordura pubiana está alta seria esticamentos normais, sim, esse poderá dar resultado devido a ser o único exercício que vc poderá fazer sem dificuldades.

Sim, se na sua puberdade você já tinha a predisposição a ser obeso ou já estava acima do peso, sim com certeza influenciou devido a seu corpo ser grande e seus hormônios precisarem ser distribuidos em todas as áreas do seu corpo, seu pênis e testículos ficaram com certeza em último na lista de prioridades.

Olha amigo, posso dizer com toda certeza para você, NÃO FAÇA A CIRURGIA AGORA, deixe o dinheiro guardado para deixar essa cirurgia por último. Eu já vi o corpo de várias mulheres gordas antes e depois de se tornarem magras por exercícios e outras por cirurgias, sim fica diferente, mas como no seu caso vc está se importando também com a questão da gordura pubiana (se quiser basta pesquisar em sites de imagens pornô mulheres que eram obesas ou muito gordas e ficaram magras, veja que o mons pubis é grande), direi-lhe que ela só sairá com cirurgia e lipo aspiração, mas daqui para lá serão uns 2 anos INTENSOS de exercícios e dietas, ou 5 anos se vc não tiver disciplina. Quando vc emagrecer vc terá pele extra, disso vc com certeza já sabe, e tem cirurgia para retirar o excesso de pele que sobrou e mais uma para tirar a gordura pubiana. Agora, se tu quiser emagrecer logo para tirar foto em rede social, vá em frente com as cirurgias.

Welcome to Thunders. :)

Sounds like you’re on the right path.

You’re penis goals are realistic.

A couple of years of exercise/diet/PE and you’ll be blowing her mind.

Good luck! :)

@C3ifador

Realmente eu devia ter procurado ajuda médica aos meus 14 anos de idade 13 anos de idade mas eu tinha muita vergonha de contar pro meu pai, minha mãe faleceu quando eu tinha 13 e com ela eu tinha mais liberdade quando eu era criança notei que meu pênis era menor do que o dos outros garotos e falei para ela eu fui para uma médica mas na época foi considerado normal .. Enfim se arrependimento matasse eu estaria morto agora

Cara é muito bom encontrar um BR aqui, então eu to com auto-estima muito baixa cara, sinceramente eu já pensei em suicidio várias vezes porque eu sei que ela quer mais, e por mais que ela goste de mim eu não quero impedir que ela tenha uma vida sexual plena .. Sinceramente você acha que vai melhorar muito minha situação se eu emagrecer ? Porque a cada dia que passa eu tento encontrar força mental mas as vezes as expectativas e esperanças vão lá em baixo com as coisas que leio .. Tudo o que eu queria na minha vida é que ela tivesse prazer sexual pleno o que ela não tem porque eu não consigo proporcionar

Sim, emagrecer vai melhorar sua situação devido a vc ter mais pênis disponível, sabemos que boa parte do seu pênis está escondido sob a gordura pubiana, e devido a isso exercícios mencionados no meu post anterior vc não poderá fazer. Emagreça, vai por mim, 80% dos seus problemas psicológicos vão embora, aí enquanto vc vai emagrecendo vc vai fazendo ai um ou outro exercício no pênis, e vai aumentando pouco a pouco, as coisas são assim.

Is there any reason you want to drop weight so fast? It’s not very healthy to lose more than 1kg/week, and i would advice ~0,5kg max or around -4500kcal. It’s even better to do half of that, but takes twice time. There are many reasons for that. For example, excess skin, because body can’t adapt so fast. Damage when body has big deficit. Dealing with hunger, etc. Basically, the only reason to do that fast is when fat makes risk to live. You can aim for slower result and don’t have any of those problems. With proper food correction (how much to eat, not what to eat as in diet) you can simply do some body stretching exercises or something else what you like to keep body in shape and after some time to see how weight goes away by itself.

I would also advice to use some additional method for check. For example, you can check your waist size.

I don’t think your situation is that bad. I agree with others that a gradual weight loss would be best long term. You should definitely add exercise to the equation. And start a log, it’s good for accountability.

Hey guys after hours of exausting research I reached some conclusions and since I’m willing to try anything I’ll talk with my doctors, now I’ll talk to people who have cases like mine where it clearly has not matured penis: Based on what I read there’s cases where you can have a solution but if only you have some kind of deficiency or fisical condition like concealed pennis .. That’s not for guys who reached 5-6in that’s for people who really suffer of undeveloped penis and I don’t know if that’s my case but I will go to the best doctors that I know to based on all that information make a full research on my past exams since I was a kid to know what treatment it’s the better I’ll be in contact with my Endocrinologist and I’ll be looking for a Urolgist and Androgenist so we can define better what’s my case about..

I really think I gathered some good information about those issues and would really like that people with the same condition could have acess for all this info:

Unfortunely it’s too much information too make a "resume" but if you’re really in this same situation as me it’s better to give it a try than pass the rest of your life with the thought "What if" .. Luckily I just made 24 last month and I hopely will find something besides the weight loss that will helpe me having a good quality and confidence in terms of sexual life.

It’s all medical studies based on evidences and with photos of the procedure, experiences with hormones and scientifical documents about inducing Puberty in Adulthood.

Probabily causes of small penis (Fisical causes):
Poor skin suspension
Congenital mega prepuce
Hydroceles
Buried pennis
Concealed pennis
Genetics (if that’s the case nothing can help, from what I read you can only develope what your genetic is made for)

Hormony Therapy:
Chorionic Gonadotropin
GnRH Gonadotropin-releasing hormone
Testosterone Undecanoate
Growth Hormone
Dht Gel topic aplication

The role of GnRH is to stimulate the testicles in males and the ovaries in females, to make sex hormones. If not enough of these hormones are made, the child will not enter puberty and will not be able to have children of their own without special treatment.

Kallmann Syndrome and Idiopathic Hypogonadotropic Hypogonadism Clinical Presentation: https://emedici ne.medscape.com … 122824-clinical
Pubertal Induction in Adult Males with Nebido to treat hypogonadism: https://www.res earchgate.net/p … g_depot_NebidoR
Induction of puberty with human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) followed by reversal of hypogonadotropic hypogonadism: https://journal s.viamedica.pl/ … 2017.0059/41816
Inducing puberty: Induction of puberty in adult endocrinology
Induction of puberty with human chorionic gonadotropin and follicle-stimulating hormone: https://www.fertstert.org/article/S0015-0282(98)00450-6/pdf
Sex Steroid and Gonadotropin Treatment in Male Delayed Puberty: https://www.kar … icle/Pdf/438891
Surgical correction of Buried Penis: https://www.ncb i.nlm.nih.gov/p … cles/PMC434514/
V-Y Plasty: https://www.res earchgate.net/p … novel_technique
Androgen study: https://www.ncb i.nlm.nih.gov/p … les/PMC3739378/
Primary Case of Concealed Pennis (CP) Surgery: https://www.ncb i.nlm.nih.gov/p … les/PMC4626920/ (Importante)
Modified Surgery of Concealed Pennis (CP): https://www.ncb i.nlm.nih.gov/p … les/PMC4662445/ "Weight loss or removal of suprapubic fat usually fails to reach satisfactory result. Simple circumcision will make the condition worse."

Remember that all I’m saying is not absolute and is based on purely research from a guy who has no medical knowledge so my council is to read everything and if you really feel that you are in some of those situations you look for the right medical specialist so therefore they will try to help you.

@Buckfever

I’ll start a log as soon I start everything, I’m already on exercise and low calorie diet combined with some medicine prescripted by my Endocrinologist, I hope that if I can have any sucess I’ll be able to help other guys in the same situation I did a lot of research and kind of gained some hope I’ve been reading a lot of medical reports based on experiments and real data analysis on the patients and maybe there’s a treatment for people who really have undeveloped pennis (I’m not talking about guys who are in 13.5-16cm range but to guys with really small penises who probabily are a result of some deficiency or fisical condition)

What is your testosterone level?
Have your doctor measured it (Lab Testing)?