Not sure if I'm jelqing correctly

Hey guys,

I’m new to the game after a looong time off. I never should have stopped, because I gained (and lost) about 1/2” NBPEL, and about 1/4” girth. I was gaining on a newbie routine, but I got overzealous and tried to go to clamping and pumping waaay too soon. After overworking my wang, I kinda trailed off on pe altogether.

Anyway, I’m back, but I am unsure if I’m jelqing correctly. It seems as though ever since my pumping days (I pumped for about 6 weeks), my unit gets really, really hard. It’s tough to jelq in that ‘sweet spot’ between too flaccid and too hard, and it’s tough for me to not jelq too hard.

I have been trying to really get expansion on my jelqs, but it doesn’t seem like I’m getting it. It sort of feels like I’m massaging forward on my penis. I’m gripping about as hard as I would to milk, or to squeeze toothpaste out of a toothpaste. Any lighter feels like I’m just barely moving anything but skin. Is this tight enough?

I’m careful not to keep jelqing if I get too hard, but how soft is too soft? I jelq when my penis is almost as long as it would be completely erect, but it kinda hangs at a downward angle and if I bounce on my feet it slightly bends as it shakes up and down. Is this an appropriate erection level?

Thanks for any advice!

Honestly, if the only way you are able to jelq is at 100%, do it. I myself started off jelqing at a high level and had great gains from it. You do want to pay attention and make sure that blood is being moved from the base to the head.

You should jelq with a level of erection in the 60%-90% range, if we are speaking of proper jelq. If you go too hard, you could try masturbating before PE sessions, in example.

how?

I’ve tried jelq in 70-100%, I can’t even feel the blood move, feel like it is not where to go and then go back,

But with jelqing in low erection, I can feel the blood being moved

Is that only my problem?

I’ll try busting a few hours before or something. That might help. Thanks guys!