I’m in a committed, totally open relationship, but I still stealth.
I originally intended to tell her (and measure) only after she made a comment about my size *first*. Now, however, I’m looking at PE as my own deal, something I’m doing for myself and only myself, and something I’m taking pride in. I also don’t like the fact that my bisexual chick might tell one of our future partners that I’ve ‘artificially’ produced my large dick. I will have worked hard enough for the fucker that I don’t feel that anyone needs to know just how I’ve achieved it. I will have worked hard enough for it to stand on it’s own (rock hard) leg. I now see myself stealthing to the very end. Since I’ve previously been involved in lots of yoga and tai chi’ types of activities, if she *does* come across any of my gear or catch me in the act my reply will be that I am “doing sexual chi-gong”- a convenient excuse because she’s seen my Mantak Chia books and has a high degree of respect for that type of shit. I would much rather have her believe that the bigger dick was an “unintended” perk of chi-gong than what it really is- me slaying one of my only deep seated insecurities- and, yes, this is one I take pride in overcoming alone.