onesmallguy,
Welcome to Thunder’s Place. You have found the place that will not only help encourage you mentally to accept the fact that you are not as small as you thought, but also to teach you the exercises and discipline necessary to physically get you to -and past- average.
First off, no one under 5”? Wrong. Take a look at our Pre PE Length poll that over 800 members have participated in. Be sure to vote yourself to add to the sample. The more votes we have, the closer we’ll get to knowing the true average. You didn’t specify if your 4.5” measurement was bone pressed or not? Either way, you are not alone in your size, and will eventually become just one more success story around here.
Secondly, forget about surgery for now. Do as 789 has suggested and read up on Y-Guy (his thread is in the Progress Report forum). After that, start reading through the Newbie forum and learn as much as you can about PE and the proper techniques required to ensure you’ll grow safely. Start with the newbie routine posted at the top of the forum. Perform that for about 6 weeks, all the while reading through the forum to learn as much as you can about what has worked for others and to decide which routines/techniques you would like to try after you finish your stint on the newbie routine.
Again, welcome aboard. Good luck with PE, and remember to be safe.