To be objective I personally would rate my physical attraction to a girl *at least* in part to her bodily features. For example; since I am a breast man and I saw a girl with a nice pair of tits then I am going to notice those a lot more than a girl with a flat chest. Does that mean that I wouldn’t/couldn’t be happy with the smaller chested girl? Not at all. Just that there will have to be other things I like to counter the fact that she isn’t not well “endowed.”
As much as we like to fool ourselves, we cannot lie and say if I have a small penis that no one couldn’t/shouldn’t/wouldn’t leave me. If a woman needs say 8” of insertion to be satisfied that is not your fault. They were born that way and there is nothing wrong with you because you don’t have a telephone between your legs. In fact, I would say that the only reason this scenario bothers us is because men in general focus their ego in their penis. Fact of life. So it hurts especially when a break-up comes to this.
The good news is not to sweat it. First of all, if you are here then you are already on the right track. But as Iwannabanana states along with many others, do this for yourself. It is like anything else, change your body for you and only for the better. Don’t let some girl screw with your head because chances are if she breaks up with you over your penis then you too didn’t have that much worth saving in the first place or/and she is a size queen. There are many paths to the same goal so don’t feel that your penis would have stopped a healthy sexual relationship.
It may sound contradictory but don’t let there be bad feelings if you don’t meet each other’s physical tastes and at the same time don’t feel that there is anything wrong with you or her. There are many keys and many locks so don’t call the locksmith unless you want something else.
I hope this helps someone out there, I could have used a good reality check some years ago and saved myself the despair of never feeling like it would be enough.
Peace.
-TF
