Question on Spouse Orgasms

Hey guys, first post here. I’ve searched a bit for this but haven’t found an answer (my apologies if it has been addressed before).

My wife and I have been married 12 years and have very limited sexual experience outside of each other. Our sex life is great in that we are both adventurous and frequent. There is just one minor problem.

My wife orgasms primarily through oral or vibrators. When we have sex though, she really enjoys the last few seconds before I orgasm because “it feels bigger.” So, I guess I have a few questions.

1. Does your penis actually get slightly bigger right before ejaculating?

2. Does anyone here have experience with successfully getting their wife to orgasm due to having a larger penis due to PE?

3. I would assume that it is girth that she is feeling at the time of orgasm, not length, right?

For what it’s worth, here are some of my stats:

Age - lower 30s
Weight - 260
Height - 6’1
BPEL - 6.25
EG - 4.75 (not as sure on this one)

Thanks for the help!

Too much of a newbie to comment on #2, but I assume what she’s feeling is probably increased blood flow from your kegel muscles tensing. (You can test this yourself, try getting hard then holding a kegel for as long as you can.) And yeah, I would think it would be girth.

Welcome to the forums, Unex. I think these are really interesting questions. However, I think there are too many variables to realistically answer them with complete certainty. There are so many things other than size that contribute to female pleasure.

#1. Yes. At least mine does.
#2. Ironically, my wife was much more multi-orgasmic when I started PE-5.25” EG, than now-6”EG. (Now, she seldom has orgasm which really diminishes pleasure for both of us!) That being said, it’s not the size of my cock, but her female issues that’s causing the problems.
#3. Probably.

Hey Unex!

Welcome to Thunders.

It is always recommended to start with a beginners routine and continue with it for 90 days or until you stop gaining. Start slowly and build up to the full routine over a few weeks.

Jelq with an erection level between 40 and 70%. When stretching, grab your shaft about one inch below the glans and do not pull too hard, just enough to to feel a slight stretch. Let your PIs be your guide as to how hard to peruse your routine.

Dont forget to take good starting measurements and photos so you have a solid base to compare your gains to.

My wife tells me that she can feel when I am about to orgasm. I believe it swells a bit and twitches some.

I have gained over an inch in girth, yet she has yet to comment on the difference. However, I can certainly feel the increase tightness.

PE safely and good luck with your endeavors.

I’ve been doing PE now for nearly two years. In that time, I’ve gained nearly an inch in length and I am currently 7.75”BPEL. I’ve gained over a half of an inch in mid-shaft girth, which currently is just under 6”.

In response to your questions, I can’t really say if my unit gets bigger right before or during orgasm.

My experience with my girlfriend of 2 and half years has been that she was always able to have orgasms, both from oral sex and vaginally. But early on, she needed to be on top during sex for her to get off. For the last year or so, she cums easily in all positions, especially missionary. I simply could not get her off in that position before PE no matter how hard or what I tried. Now, after some foreplay, she orgasms in missionary very quickly, sometimes in under a minute and she’s now having multiples most of the time.

I attribute these changes to my increased size, especially the increase in girth. I’ve overheard her talking to her girlfriends bragging about my girth so that’s my theory on why these changes have occurred.

I do PE in stealth but lately she’s been making comments like “you seem bigger honey”. I just smile and tell her, “it’s because of you honey, you get me so excited”. She loves that….

Thanks guys. I’ll use the Newbie Routine and keep an eye out for any cues from the wife, verbal or non.

I have been married 20 years and can tell you that our sex life has change drastically over the years. It’s a lot kinkier now than ever.

She was 2 orgasms and done before child birth, Now she can’t get enough. I have given her up to ten in a marathon session, and a lot of them my penis was not in her.

If you want to test if she needs a bigger penis, buy a dildo a little bigger than you and see how she reacts. She might love it and you can have a goal or just pound her with the dildo.

My theory is do what you have to do to make her orgasm. I can tell you if you keep doing the same thing and hoping for different results, it’s not going to happen.