Question regarding Kegels and losing an erection

Ok, I have a question about kegels. When I get completely erect, my penis keeps it’s angle without stimulation for about 20 seconds before going down. However, if I am to do a kegel for say 5 seconds, it will go ‘up’ more briefly and then when I release it will lose it’s angle and go down. I will now also be out of ‘the zone’ and have to spend 15 seconds masturbating myself back to a full erection. Why is this? Is my kegel muscle really weak? Or is it simply just because I have no stimulation when I do the kegel? Just curious as to why this happens.

That is exactly what happens to me. Dont know why… Do you also have problems with keeping your dickhead engorged with blood? I do.

Don’t kegel when you’re erect, do it while flaccid. Do a lot of them. You’re working muscles you don’t flex much so like other muscles you’ve got to go slow and build-up and have rest days. Some guys do 100, 400, 1000+ kegels a day but they had to work up to it. Kegeling while hard puts more strain on the muscles than there should be. Try kegeling for a few months, you should notice an improvement within one month. Think about it just like regular weight lifting.

YES, very much so.

I’ve been kegeling (on average) about 100 times a day for the past 2 weeks and already my erections are stronger and cock is harder more often, also I’d swear it’s hanging better when flaccid.

Oh yeah and my orgasms are DEFINATELY stronger, that stuff is going everywhere.

Well…it seems that we have a “problem” .
Try this today. While you are flaccid, stand on a chair or sofa(no pants obvious), and begin to masturbate, BUT KEEP YOUR LEGS VERY CLOSE TO EACH OTHER, EVEN CROSS THEM A LITTLE, so your balls will be between your thighs(or even above, but better in between). Your thighs must be very very close to each other. If I do that, after my dick swells with blood, and also my dickhead, my dickhead remains engorged with blood. I wonder if we have some blood out(in)flow problem. And it`s not just my dickhead, it`s my entire upper shaft.

Thanks I will try that. Mine is mostly my head, but it takes a while to get the rest hard anyway. I think I have a venous leak, I made another post about it called 18 year old with erection problems.

By the way when you say ‘problem’ are you referring to the head retaining blood or the erection angle faultering after kegels? I don’t see the latter as a problem per se.I mean when I am with a girl I am excited enough that I can kegel etc and keep my angle so it doesn’t really matter. But the head thing is very bad, I am going to see another urologist and more and more I am considering surgery if I am a suitable candidate.

By the way, about the head thing, for me it happens much worse when I am prone (lying back) then when I am standing up. A cock ring fixes it though.

Man I’m in a bind. I’m just venting now.but fuck I want this problem fixed. But I am torn between risking surgery if I am suitable and fixing it for good, or just permanently wearing a cock ring for sex.

Don’t get your hopes up about surgery—there is no real surgery that will make your wang (CC or CS) harder. The one you may be thinking of is one where they tie-off a vein or two, and you would think “Yes, that’s the answer—if you tie-off veins that are causing blood to flow out, it will keep more blood in and mean a harder penis!” It makes perfect sense. But it doesn’t work. Why not? I have no idea, but it doesn’t. It may help a very small amount for some people but placebo works almost as well. Anyway, the real reason I wrote this is to say that the word “prone” means lying face down, so you can’t be prone and lying back. But the veinous leakage surgery thing is still true.

It`s not a problem , it`s a “problem” . It does not affect sex life, it only affects our ego.