Secretly PEing... Girlfriend Tips?

At the moment all of my exercises are done in a covert type setting. My lady tells me that I have an amazing dick, and that she wouldn’t want it any bigger. I don’t necessarily believe that. I’m at about BPEL 6.0” and EG 5.6”(measured that in Dec.) I am fine with my girth,(if i gained i wouldn’t be upset) but would love another inch in length. We have awesome sex, she orgasms with the help of a vibe every time…. or my tongue, but I know she is fibbing about my size…she would like it a little bigger. When i get going deep and hard and bounce on her cervix she goes absolutely nuts. I just want to be able to reach that without having to go balls deep every time. Not a lot of women come easily from penetration and I almost had her there by doing those deep pelvic stimulation grinds. So I have been sneaking around the house like a rat trying to PE any time there is a chance. Currently the bulk of my exercises are done at work. I do multiple mini-sessions throughout the day, Just to keep the blood flowing and stay pumped. Unfortunately most of my work is done WITHOUT heat… I know this sucks, and believe it might be hindering my gains. I also try to work in some jelqs and stretches in a hot shower in the morning, after my woman gets out(we shower together everyday, we say we are saving the planet’s water). But that is it for the heat factor. I just want to know if anyone has any tips, tricks, or techniques that can lead me in the right direction of gains. Or maybe even help me out with the approach to tell her, because I feel like if I talk to her about this it could go really good or REALLY bad. The reason I say that is because we are VERY honest with eachother, and this is the biggest secret I have hid from her in a long time.

It would be ideal to have a solid routine and not have to worry about being caught.

I love my PE brothers and thanks in advance.

When I told my wife I was really nervous about how she would react but I said that it was important to me and my confidence if I pursued this. She had absolutely no problems and was very supportive. We are very honest with each other as well .. But don’t tell her that you’ve been doing it for awhile now. She might be hurt knowing you hid this. Just say you just found this site the other day and that it seems like a great resource to pursue this safely and it got you thinking about how you would like to be a little bit longer.

If she really loves you which I’m sure she does .. How could she say no if you bring up and have an honest conversation about why you want this. That way you don’t have to be ashamed and worried that she is going to catch you. In this case asking for permission is easier than begging for forgiveness.

Good luck

I have been doing stealth PE for 2.5 years now.I have absolutely no intention of telling my wife anytime soon she would just say im an idiot and its fine the way it is.We have always had a good sex life but I believe a bit of extra size has made it better.I think you just need to weigh it all up if you think she will be fine with it tell her if you think she will be angry don’t tell her.

I stealth pe’d close to a year with clamping and manual stretching. I stopped for awhile and decided to pump…which is hard to stealth.

So I just told her, “I’m thinking about getting a penis pump.” She told me that I am “fine” (God, I hate that word) and was annoyed by me bringing my size up.

So when it arrived, I didn’t hide it. I just started using it. She worries that I am hurting myself more than anything. That’s not a bad thing because she keeps me from over doing it! Other than that, she doesn’t say anything about me pumping. We even watch TV while I am pumping. I think she’s curious about how big it gets, but she won’t admit it…. Yet

Nice work I have just started pumping also last week. I have to do everything stealth especially with a few teenage kids we still have here at home.

It’s much easier to stay consistent when they know. My wife knows that I pump in the hot tub. Like you we watch TV or a movie while I pump. She gets the benefit after all.

Listen guys, I told my wife form the get go.

I just told her that it’s some exercises to help me have a healthier penis and harder erections cause I am a heavy smoker and had some EQ issues, nothing crazy though. She said ok, go for it.

When gains came, she noticed right away. I said you see, it worked, best EQ ever.

She said all those years wasn’t like that, it’s bigger.

I said calmly , don’t know, these fucking exercises work.

Never said to her that PE enlarges the penis. She never asked, she just said she didn’t want it any bigger and I said I’ll take it easy. Maybe she got it after all.

We love you too brother.

Can’t help you at this subject, I’m single (loner).

Bill has nailed it 100% bang on. You have to tell her IF you are going to fully commit to pe. How you tell her depends on the type of woman she is.
Just think, you will have a much tougher predicament when you gain and it becomes obvious. Then when you tell her, she could be more upset because you weren’t upfront with her and hid it.

Id say tell her. I told my misses i wanted to buy a bathmate because its a tool for a healthier penis and that its good for eq ect. Then she became interested and wanted to watch to see how it was getting bigger. Fast forward a year and i now do my routine whilst shes in the bedroom too and she even helps between sets sometimes.

And useless…are you ok buddy? Getting worried about you now. Useless/single/loner…..come on, i want to hear my fellow pe’ers brimming with confidence!!

If u need to talk I’m here!

Appreciate your concern man, I’m better than OK to be honest.

“Useless” is just a nickname (I know the translation for it), don’t get too psyched about it.

I’ve been in stealth mode for about 15 months. The wife has definitely noticed the gains but she’s clueless what to attribute it to. I’ve been on the fence about telling her because it’s hindered my hanging routine a handful of times. I’m pretty sure she’ll be ok with it but a small part of me thinks she will consider it a waste of time.

My wife hasn’t commented on any gains as yet.Not sure if she genuinely hasn’t noticed or is just not saying anything.So I will just keep doing PE in stealth mode to she actually makes some sort of comment.Though I have only gained 0.5” in length and 0.5 in girth so far that’s in about 2.5 years.

0.5 in length and especially 0.5 in girth is definitely not only, IMO.

It seems your penis may favor girth gains. I think mine does.

Unless you are already hung like Mandingo, women don’t have a valid argument against PE. They just don’t like seeing vanity in a man.

Your wife or girlfriend would not dream of leaving the house without spending an hour or more on her hair and makeup every day, yet you could never convince her not to do it.
I would also wager that she really appreciates the look of well toned and ripped underwear models and male strippers. Does she have any idea what they have to do to acquire that kind of physique? I’ll be she thinks they were born that way.

The results of our PE efforts are never seen or appreciated by the general public. It is a gift to ourselves and our SO. Where is the vanity in that?
Just do what you need to do. If she happens to see you doing it, casually and calmly explain it to her, and tell her you are doing it for her. If she puts up a stink about it, tell her to stop spending hundreds of dollars on cosmetics and dozens of hours a week playing with her face because she looks “just fine” without it.