sex for the first time, kinda disappointed...

Thanks for all the replies. I feel better knowing its somewhat normal.

It was great at first but, then she cum before I did and made me get off.

- We we’re like 15 or 14, and It was great for her since she penetration before I did!

I hope it gets better ratrat

ISC; I’m 25 and the most contact I’ve ever had is a hand shake.

My first intercourse was pretty awful. My g/f at the time was so stoked; it felt to me that I was in bed with a porn queen, not the dear, sweet thing she was earlier in the evening.

I started hard and ended up with a “stuffer” at do-it time. I stuffed it and made it through the event. It was much better the next time, and much better the next times. Don’t let this make you nuts. Confidence builds. Trust me.

My first time was with one of my best friends from school, and well… lets just say practice makes perfect. We were worried about her getting knocked up so I had a condom on, and she put some kind of fizzy spermicidal egg thing up inside her, and to top it all off she squirted almost half a damn tube of spermicidal k-y jelly up there. Now I knew from some earlier fingering that she was pretty tight, so I was looking forward to “popping the cherry”. When the glorious moment of first penetration came, I damn near fell inside her. It was so friggin slick from all the lubes, natural and unnatural that we both pretty much felt nothing. We ended up laughing so hard we had to stop, and nothing else happened again. So yes, my first time was by FAR the worst, but an experience non the less.

The best advice I can give you is practice, practice, practice…

The first time I had sex it was ok. It was with the wrong girl, there were too many rules, I ejaculated but didn’t orgasm and I needed to go for two but it wasn’t possible. But I was a virgin for too long and I’m glad I got it over with. The second time I had sex it was much better and I was practically satisfied. The third time sucked and I couldn’t even last a minute. The fourth was much better and was as good or better than the second. The fifth….hasn’t happened yet.

One important thing is that I’ve never had sex with the same woman more than once. And every way I got laid, I had to go way out of my way to get some.

I thought about it alot and came to realize that it was just loveless sex and thats why it did nothing for me. I had had a few shots and didn’t really want to have sex but she really wanted to so I obliged. I think also that daily pornography/masterbation had me sort of desensitised, its hard to explain really. After that night I don’t even feel the need to look at porn anymore and masterbate way less also.

It turns out that this girl really likes me and we started going out. We had sex again afew days ago and now that I have feelings for her it was 10 times better.

But anyways, for all the virgins out there: don’t have sex just for sex. Its a waste of time and you will regret it.

I am circumcised and I find this very interesting. Thanks, I will look into this.

Also, sorry offtopic… How do I become a full member? I would like to post in the members forum.

<How do I become a full member? I would like to post in the members forum.>

You can reply to any thread now ratrat. You just can’t start a new thread until you have reached the magic 20 posts and 14 days. (I sometimes get those backwards, but I think that’s right)

Perfectly Stated!!!!!!

There was nothing better that having that first time be with my wife on our wedding night! It was one of the most fulfilling and satisfying experiences of my entire life! And I was 34 years old when I got married! (is that one for the books?) And guess what? That was the best sex I ever had, until the next morning, which was the best until after breakfast, which was the best until after lunch, ….. you get the picture?

True sex is the best with the one you love! Other sex is just going through the physical motions! True sexual expression is much deeper than the reflect action that is portrayed in the media today. Too bad it’s not taught in most circles. It’s a real shame too, because it is the best sex that any person can ever experience!

Abstinence is best until it is truly the right time!

I thought I was the only one who lasted over a half hour their first time! I was expecting I would blow it in about two seconds but kept going for ever. I attributed this to the fact I was baked out of my mind at the time, but it seems to be pretty common. Anyways, it does get better. There will come a time you’ll spend part of sex thinking about baseball stats. just to make it last longer than five minuets.

My first time did last forever but im not sure i did a bad job cuz she continued to ask for more the reason it last forever was because i had bought condoms but they were to small and cutting off circulation so i really couldn’t get into it. It lasted about an hour then we took a shower and while in there i got hard again and we had sex which lasted about 5 minutes in and i blew my load quick.

Why is that?

My first time was disappointing as well. I was 18, had a hard time getting it up and once I did, it lasted forever. I wish I had waited for the right girl for my first time, but then again, I tought she was the one at that time.

My first time was disappointing due to my only lasting a few seconds once it was in, but still a great experience. I was 26.

I lasted long my first time of intercourse. It was alot of work though, it was tiring. Maybe I need to work on girth more afterall?