Should I tell the wife about PE

Yeah good point sparkyx. I think I will tell her, but not until it seriously interferes with my routine.

Thanks for all the post!

sparkyx,

Good advice! That’s a perfect way to tell her. Let her see how she contributed to your drive to PE, as she probably did contribute to it with that mean statement. Seriously could you imagine how hurt she’d be if she was laying naked on the bed and you said “what are you doing laying there naked, who wants to see those tiny breasts and fat gut?”. She’d probably never forgive you and her self esteem would be shattered. She probably wasn’t in the mood for sex so she was trying to destroy your mood for it, by taking a cheap shot.

Hi NonStock2001

I’ve just started PEing and I have considered telling my girlfriend (long term/no lifetime.), I have decided no to but if she catches me I shall explain.

If she hasn’t commented after I measure gains (decent ones of course at least an inch) then I will be gutted! Hoping that one day she will complain it just bout fits in her mouth! GREAT MOMENT already dreaming!

Goodluck whatever you decide.I’m in agreement with many on here that if you think she will support your choice then it will do no harm, else keep quiet for a while longer!

Take care

I told my wife after she had made remarks about me feeling bigger. I told her I was doing it because most men tend to be a bit smaller and less erect with age. She bought it and said cool whit her if I wanted to donate the time. I could tell bigger is better for her by her reaction during sex. I am 43 right now, and I do think I have lost some over the years.

Now at 7 x 6 and going for 8 x 6.5.

Trip

Nope.

I told my wife after she caught me jelking in the shower. She is super cool with it. She loves the girth. Last night she layed naked on her stomach watching tv while I pumped. She said I couldn’t touch it until I was done wtih my routine. By the time I was done my she was wet and my dick was still hard after being in the pump for 15 minutes I went straight in from behind.

It’s a beautiful thing!

You have to feel TOTALLY comfortable about telling her and discussing it in detail with her. If you are the least bit uncomfortable with it, then I would not tell her yet.

I told my last long-term girlfriend and she was cool with it. I think she still lurks around here now and then.

I’ve since moved on to a new lady and since we are having slight issues with her very tightness, I don’t think that I will tell her that I’m in the process of trying to make it bigger. :leftie: We’ll have to see how this relationship develops before I would consider telling her.

Cool supportive wife = yes:hanger:

Controlling Bitch= no:moon2:

Tell her the E stands for Excercise.

Then, one day, after she recovers from the seismic unleashing that you visit upon her by means of your PE-built baloney pony, you can tell her what it really means :)

NonStock, I can only say: Go ahead & tell her. I did that & my girlfriend was very openminded about it. It is also in her interst you know?!

My wife caught me stretching while lying on the sofa - clad in nothing but boxers, watching TV while she was putting our daughter in bed, she suddenly walked in. She looked right at me, I let go and looked at her and said “Just stretching all that can be stretched”. “Yeah, I see that” she said. Haven’t said a word about it since. I think she probably thought I was just playing with myself (which I was, to be correct).

I told my wife about it. She is fine with it as long as I give her attention when she’s around and not obsess too much with my dick.

This requires a trusting relationship and some open-mindedness. I think it’s best to lay the cards on the table, otherwise, if you are caught she might have a bigger fit of anger thinking you might be jerking of. If a person is brought up to believe that touching sexual parts is dirty and wrong there might be some resistance.

That’s my point. If his wife thinks touching sexual parts is dirty and wrong, then being open about PE is probably not going to be easy. But if she feels that it is wrong to touch one’s own private parts and caught you in the act, then the immediate reply would be “I am so thankful that you will take on my needs here and now!”

Besides, your wife said it was OK as long as you didn’t obsess about your dick? How long time does she spend daily doing makeup, choosing clothes, fixing her hair…?

I am going to tell her, but not yet. She is pretty supportive in everything I do and we have great trust. I think most of the time I can do it before she gets home form work. I have 1.5 hours of free time before dinner most days so that’s usually the time I PE. If the time comes when I don’t have any free time then I will tell her then, because I’m not stopping. I’ve been thinking (dreaming) about bigger member for so long, and now that I know how to achieve it, I must go on!

Thanks for all the great post, you guys are real helpful!

She doesn’t mind me touching it. A few times in bed while giving me head, she’ll start licking and sucking the ole nut sack while I stroke away and end up coming all over her tits. Yeah that’s fun.