Should I tell the wife about PE

Hello to all, I have been PEing for about 2 months pretty consistently. I have been Jelqing, stretching, and some very mild clamping. I know I would be able to stick to my routine much better if I let my future wife know about it. I’m not sure how to tell her or just let her catch me in the act or what.

If any one is, or was in a position like this, please tell me what you did and how it turned out. This would be very helpful. Thank You!

That really depends on what kind of relationship you have with your wife, her preconcieved notions about sexuality, religion, morality etc. Impossible to answer, but I’m sure others here will have a go at it if you give us some more background info.

There are a few threads about guys who have told their significant others.

At the end of the day, if you think she is 100% going to support you and be ok with it, then tell her. Otherwise, I wouldnt.

I think if she is very open sexually, you shouldn’t have trouble telling her. Take it from someone who has told more than 3 people about his PE adventures.

Yes, exactly 4 people have seen your cable access show, “xlmagnum's PE Adventures”

I personally liked the episode where you went to Australia, and wrestled a croc wearing nothing but your “Penimaster”…

GM

NonStock,

Several weeks ago, I told my wife that I was doing PE. She accused me of being obsessed with my penis, but she was cool with me doing it. She already knew that I was restoring my foreskin, and I had mentioned PE several times when talking about FR, so this wasn’t a completely new topic for her.

Whatever you do, good luck!

If she accepts PE you’ll find doing PE is more more fun. And you won’t have to hide from her.

NonStock,

I told my wife about the penimaster and jelqing long ago. Some days I regret it and some days I’m glad I told her. I don’t like to be told I am obsessed with my dick. She has zinged me a few times about being dick obsessed so because of that I have not told her about the hanging and pumping I do at the office. She only knows I use the penimaster at home. tps’ Redi Stretcher, the max extender, the Dr Kaplans pump, and the Captns Wench are here at the office so I will not be sharing that anytime soon.

The only reason I told her about any of it was because I wanted to be able to use the penimaster at nite and didnt want to hide it. I probably wouldnt do it again though.

Great answer Mr mgus.

If she has an open mind, it might benefit your PE that she knows. If you are spending alot of time PE-ing, and this might irritate her, then obviously, it’s best not to tell her. I.E. “you can stretch and play with your unit all day, but you cant paint the garage, help me plant flowers, wash my car, help me around the house, <you fill in more here> …”

I did not tell my Wife, but she did see my pump. I explained to her it was for my e.d. problem, and she was “sort of” okay with it.

It all depends on you relationship. I told my wife and she had no problems. An added bonus has been when I pump she likes to massage it between sessions. Some women would probably freak and maybe even think you’re doing it because she is too loose. So you have to figure this one out on your own. I personally think it’s a good thing to not have to have secrets. Good luck.

Mgus, We have been together 8 years now. We have only had sex with one another. ( We were virgins when we met in H.S.) She is not very sexual person and doesn’t initiate very often. Maybe 20 percent of the time. She responds good to sex. She doesn’t get very excited until she ready to come. I have giving her a few organisms with only my dick which is my preferred way.
She’s a catholic girl were both 25 years old. She had said that my member is small but not when it’s erect. I was laying on the bed naked once on my back watching TV, and she walked in and said why are you naked “who wants to see that tinnie tiny penis” OUCH! I don’t think she meant anything bad by it. But I don’t think she knows how seriously I took it. Anyway there’s some more info.

6.75”bpel 4.75EG

CRIKEY!

The penimaster sure held up, didn’t it?

Alright, I’ve just got to ask, how do your co-workers, secretary, etc.. feel about all this? It’d be a little awkward having a meeting with someone while he’s got a 20lb weight hanging from his dick. :D

Well I work out at the gym at about 5:00 a.m. and get back to the office around 6:45 a.m. and I am alone until about 8:30-8:45 everyday, so I have plenty of privacy. I ALMOST got caught pumping last week about 8:00 a.m. when the large breasted MILF sales woman I have came in early. I was about 10 seconds from being caught no more. Now I lock the front door AND my office door.

Jesus!!! I can’t tell you how much that pisses me off!

You know, women accuse us of being insensitive, but they can be total asses at times, and not even have the decency to own up to it!

I bet if you complained to her how painful that was, she would accuse you of being too “sensitive” or she was “just kidding”.

I wonder how she would feel if you made some comment like, ” why is this thing so loose?” or ” for God’s sake, can’t you wash that thing any better?”

She would be mortified, and never forgive you for that comment.

Fortunately I have a great gal, who is as kind to me as I am to her…maybe even more so.

Anyway, ( I feel better now) I am of the opinion that you should at least let her know of your intention. That way if she is interested, you can tell her.

If she isn’t interested, at least you don’t have to worry about her finding your stuff or catching you in the act.

Hell, I would put it on her…I’d say something like “honey, you remember the time you said who wants to see that tinnie tiny penis?”

” You may not have realized it, but it was very painful for me, and I’ve never really gotten over it. I finally found some really good information on natural enlargement, and I think I gonna look into it.”

You will kill 2 birds with one stone. You will inform her of what you are going to do, and give back a little mind fuck of what she laid on you. Maybe she will be a better wife for it.