Shrinking Penis

I am new to the Forum, but have been now reading a bunch of posts recently. If someone could share your ideas / opinions on the following, I would appreciate it greatly.

I’m 44 years old. I have had a satisfying and active sex life. I have always known that my penis (especially when flaccid) was Small, but it has not really bothered me because, as mentioned, there has never been any issues with experiences or performance. Until lately.

My penis is very thin when flaccid, about 8-9 centimeters. Length is about 12cm. When erect, the girth is 11cm (mid), 12-13cm at the base. Erect length is 17cm. In the past I never had issues with these stats, they were perhaps a bit larger back then, I did not measure that often because I never felt need to that. I had sex often and masturbated maybe three times a week. In the past I NEVER had any Ed-issues.

In 2018 I went through a nasty divorce. After that I quickly found a new partner, in the beginning the sex was great. We got married. Then I learned that the woman had not been quite truthful about her past. Sexual problems started, major premature ejaculation issues, ED, a tiny flaccid, you name it. They have continued. I went to a doctor who prescribed Tadalafil. It works. Now I masturbate very rarely but when I do I am able to achieve great erections naturally. The difference between flaccid vs. Erect is amazing
. Still I wonder about the flaccid, I genuinely feel that my penis is shrinking even though the measuring shows that it is not happening. In the flaccid state the penis seems so small that I feel hopeless about the prospects of PE.

So to sum all up. In some sense I realise that there has to be a major psychological component behind all of this. On the other hand I fear that I have some rare muscle-disease which also shrinks the penis. I have also very tight leg muscles, but on the other hand my pelvic floor seems to be very weak in comparison to past. These symptoms appeared after the divorce.

Any advice how I should start developing a more fatty flaccid and eventually a larger penis. Through the newbie routine? I have been trying jelqing and stretching after shower and I can kind of see how it could make a difference, but then the ugly sceptic in me raises its head.

If you have a flaccid of 4.72 inches, you already have a long flaccid dick. I find that aggressive fulcrum stretching (and separating the dick from the balls) helps immensely with flaccid.

I’m intrigued, what does separate the dick from the balls mean for fulcrum stretches?

Thanks for the encouragement. Yes, I know that my flaccid of 4.72 or 5 inches is ok. I guess it is the girth that annoys me. Well, our genetics are what they are.

I think that when I was younger, had more sex, masturbated more and thought about sex more, my flaccid was somewhat semi-erect most of the time and therefore looked (and was) thicker. I wish I had found PE back then when I was in my best sexual state in every way. Well, had no need for it then and now when I feel I do, I also feel that the dick looks do pathetic that it cannot benefit from PE. Weird is the human mind, indeed. Our best friend and worst enemy. :)

Maybe I’ll try to give my 100% concentration to PE for awhile and see if anything happens. :)

I find wearing a cock ring for most of the day helps with all the above. I just throw a silicone one on after exercise, or just get (semi) erect in the morning and throw it on. My EQ goes up (easier/faster/harder erections) and psychologically it helps, because it’s more or less always beefed up.

Buy a set of em and choose one that doesn’t apply so much pressure that your constantly having to take it on/off or what have you. Toy
Around with it.