So I have this "sweet spot" below the glans.

When I jelq it feels like I am going to cum right when I reach below the glans, usually I kegel as hard as I can to prevent the orgams. The good thing is this spot keeps me semi-erect, the bad thing is, well today I came for the first time while jelqing (on my 195th one goddamit). I was wondering if anyone else shares this “sweet spot” and if there are any pointers? Maybe I am going to close to the glans?

The interesting thing is when I began I had trouble staying erect, now after 2 weeks I develop this goddamn “sweet spot.”

This sweet spot is a collection of nerves consisting the frenulum. It is adviced not to jelq this area as it is below another bunch of nerves on the top of the shaft (dorsal nerves). It is wise not to apply direct pressure to nerves on your penis.

Ok so I guess I was going a bit too far right? Thanks.

I personally jelq up to about half an inch below the head.

Are you sure you are jelqing right? I have never felt the desire to Orgasm while jelqing. Make sure each one takes atleast 3 seconds and try to stay at 50-60percent erection. If you get harder than that, just wait a mnute for it to go limp again.

It’s this freaking’ “sweet spot” that causes me to cum in about 3 thrusts while having sex. This has caused so much trauma in my life and in my marriage that it has destroyed my self confidence because not only do I see myself as having a small penis, but I also suck in bed because I cum so fast and go soft. It’s ruined our sex life to the point where my wife has told me that what’s the point of being affectionate and getting worked up only to be disappointed. Man, talk about REALLY losing your mojo after hearing that..

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You should habituate to this sensation over time, it is not necessary to stop short of this area. Nerve endings are present all over the penis just because you are more sensitive in a given area does not preclude exercising this area. In order to work the glans and promote expansion it is always a good technique to balloon the head as much as possible. A three part Uli that works up the shaft and ultimately the head is very effective in PE techniques.

If you are having problems keeping things in control you should try “dry jelqs,” (I assume you have been lubing the piston)? As for problems with intercourse control, you should try a desensitizing lotion or condom to overcome your “fast trigger.” Your gal may not be too excited by the condom at first but once you have her “eyes pasted shut” she will forget about it.

It is a conditioning routine that will give you greater staying power down the line. Your gal must join in on the effort to re-educate your penis, the first month may lack the eroticism of a “wet dream” but the end results will satisfy both of you. Or, you should shoot your load 20mins prior to the encounter and trust the “reload” will hit the mark (but this is just a stop-gap measure).

The other technique that is effective but frowned upon by some in the forum is to apply an equal but opposite stimulus. In my early days when encountering this problem, I would give serious stretches to my scrotum in an effort to change the sexual stimulus to a “pain stimulus” this becomes effective after the third or fourth time. When you feel the urge to explode, apply the skin stretch to immediately counter the pleasure stimulus, the brain begins to not distinguish between the two (more or less) and the stimulus of intercourse becomes a benign feeling to your ejaculatory reflexes.

rhedick, wow. Three thrusts during sex, that’s definitely premature ejaculation. You can try antidepressants, although that will also lower libido. A non-prescription product that works similar to antidepressants is an herbal product called Deferol, might want to try that.

I’d be very interested to know if your situation improved if you tried practicing, masturbating with the stamina training unit Fleshlight. It’s a special type of Fleshlight used for this purpose. Supposedly feels very realistic.

By the way, your penis isn’t small. It’s the most common size and a good fit for women.

Ms. Blue, your tag-line intrigues me. I have noticed that some women will make mention of the “hardness” factor. How does the degree of “stiffy” translate to more pleasure for you over an erection that can be somewhat compressed? My curiousity stems from the “size matters” factor and perhaps points of comparison e.g. shape, girth and headsize characteristics.

It’s more of a vanity thing, actually. It’s not as exciting if it’s chemically induced. On the other hand, looking at my toys made out of hard silicone, wood and steel, I guess harder is better. A good sproingy one makes for a good hard fuck. Although I can orgasm just from flexing, orgasming during heavy thrusting isn’t from the feeling of being stretched, it’s from the tapping feeling. Got to have something hard enough to tap.

I think we all have it dude. That is a trigger area. Stay closer to the base of the shaft and you can do 1000 jelqs.

Try using a cock ring and doing some jelqs about 15mins before you start having sex, this usually swells my dick and I lose feeling but I can still orgasm/ejaculate but I have to remove the ring right before I do..

I dont know if this will help you any but it does help me last longer

Rhedick,

Can you describe your mental state when you cum this quickly? How excited are you? How nervous?

Also, if you don’t mind, how old are you, and how much sexual experience?

What does this mean? Please explain how “tap” is used in describing the “ins and outs” of a man and a woman. Marconi never described this aspect of communication.

Yo Rhedick.

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